Message from 'Mrs KOTC'

Dear second life this is Patricia Richards wife…I cannot begin to tell you and all the members how proud of KOTC you have made myself and our family.I am finding it difficult to expressj myself at the moment,as it is still hard to take in what has happened.Would you please pass on to everyone how proud they have made us with their wonderful tributes Patricia Mrs KOTC

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Dear Patricia,

I hope that all the positive comments are some comfort for you and your family. Richard was obviously a very kind man, very thoughtful of others. My prayers are with you/

Victoria xx

We were privileged to have Richard as a forum member for so long Patricia.

Thinking of you and your family, jean x

A lovely,thoughtful caring person, my sympathy for his family . We miss him.

R.i.p my friend ime going to miss you.

my condolences to your family.

I am so very sorry for your loss, I have not been on here for a long time, I must admit if there was a post from "KOTC" it would be the first one that I looked at, they always made me laugh then cough and smile.

That was a lovely message from Mrs KOTC. He was a rather special man. He only thought of the group. He always welcomed everyone who was new. X

Dear Patricia. I haven't been posting for quite a while but I do read the posts. I am very sorry to read of Richard's passing. His daily jokes helped keep the spirits up for us that battle with this illness.

Sincere condolances to you and your family,



my condolences to your family.

Very sad x

Dear Patricia. I am so very sorry to hear about Richard, He all ways put a smile on my face, every time I read his messages. You and your family are in my thoughts and my heart all ways Nannyb xxx

He was so generous with his time and always reported back on any snippets of neas he received from City Hospital research or any of the other groups and forums he attended. RIP mate. As you go through life, you meet so many people but some, some very special ones, leave a lasting impression.You were one of the best Richard.God bless you. Love, prayers and best wishes to Patricia and Richards family.


A time of thoughtful reflection. Our thoughts go out to you and your family. x

Thank you SecondLife for passing Patricia's lovely message on to us.


Second Life, Thank You for conveying our messages to Patricia and her Family our thought are with them at this time.Matt/Fran

Very sorry to hear this news. Richard will be missed here !


Hi Gordon so nice to hear from you keep well.Matt/Fran

Glad to know you are OK, Gordon. Alison

Richard was the first person, who welcomed me to this forum, last September, although my time knowing him through this, was short, as like every one else's comments, he bought a lot of peace of mind and enjoyment to us all. Richard you are missed. God bless you Patricia and all your family. June xx

Patricia, you must miss him so. Warmest wishes and hugs to you . He was so very positive and such a gent, whenever we remember him it will be with a thankful smile . xxx

Lovely man, greatly missed.

So sorry to hear the news Patricia. It's good to know that you can take comfort from all on the Healthunlocked site as we all felt that we knew Richard from his daily jokes and support of other members. You are right to be proud of him. Take care. Love and hugs, Lizzy.

He always made me feel better when I was feeling down, without thought for himself.

God bless you all.

Kim xxxx

lt must be very difficult for you at the moment, but thank you for your message. We all miss kotc and his kind words and humour on here. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

RIP dear KOTC, you tried very hard to lighten up our lives anf you did well, god bless you.

Deepest sympathy also to your family, we will miss you so it will be much harder for them.

So sorry to hear, he was a truly great man and will be missed by all Adrian

I am sorry to hear he will be missed on this site as he always made my day to read his jokes

He will live on through his jokes and kindness to others.

Hi Patricia. I have only just heard this sad news. My wife Barbara and I offer our heart felt sympathies. He was a lovely man who helped to keep us all smiling through these difficult times. This will be a sadder place without him. Wishing you all the best, Larry and


Dear Patricia,

How kind of you to think about sending a message - my deepest sympathy to you and your family, with much love TADxx

A lovely man, sadly missed by all. Condolences Patricia and family. xxx

Such a great impression KOTC made on me when I recently joined this forum. Without barely knowing him, I feel I will miss his kind and helpful messages, they were an essential part of this whole community. Thank God for putting people like this in the world.

Wonderful men have wonderful wives. You are proof of that. He often mentioned you in his posts, speaking of you with humor and love, which was his trademark. Caretakers like you are the heroines and heroes.

Dear Patricia, you and your family are in my thoughts. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Thank you for sharing Richard with us, he was an absolute Godsend to many of us. Sending prayers and hugs.

Kath xx

I am shocked to the very core to read this. I've had personal problems and haven't been here for a while. Please accept my sincere condolences. He was one of a kind, one of life's true gentlemen. He will be sadly missed from the group. My thoughts and prayers are with you and his family at this sad time.

very sorry for your lost its so hard to believe he as gone when I join her he made me feel so welcome to this group he never let anything get him down he welcome everyone with a joke and always told who was feeling down to keep our chin up he;s going to be missed he was a special person in our group R.I.P And thinks of all his family and friend at this sad time xx


R.I P Richard, K.O.T.C. he will be missed by many, my condolences to you Patricia and family, he was a very kind man and help me very much.


Dear Second Life,

He was a special light on this siteand was a source of great fun and humour. My condolences, RIP KOTC.


So sorry to hear about Richard Patricia, he was so lucky to have you around, a true gentleman in every sence of the word. We shall all miss him so very much. God bless you all, you must stay even stronger now, but you will get through the pain in time, but never the memories, they are there to chrish for ever . Malk.

I read his posts all the time, he always made me smile. So sorry for your loss, he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you Patricia and your family. Xx

It's thanks to your husband that I felt integrated into the group at once. Thank you.

Hello Patricia, before i joined this site I spent some time reading the posts, it was Kingys sense of humor, he made me smile when I,d forgotten how to smile, & that made me want to be here, his was always the first post I,d read when I logged in, there is often sadness & fear here but KOTC's jokes made us remember we are still human beings with a need to laugh,

Thank you so very much for sharing Richard with us all, as you can see from the posts here, we too "loved" him in our own way,

Keeping you & your family & friends in my prayers

Karen xxxx

hi mrs kotc lm very sorry to hear of your loss l haven't been long on this site but l remember seeing post from mr kotc l do hope now that he is with god and still looking down on us and helping us to come to terms with out health problems you never know he may have left us with a bit more knolwege of this horrible decease than what we had when he was with us please take care of yourself and your family and l give you all my love and thoughts and will say a prayer for you all love marie xxxx

Thank you for your message Patricia. It is kind of you to think of us at such a sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Alison xxx

Dear Patricia and family. It is comforting knowing your husband was so loved. My partner who passed away with the same thing in the same amount of time, was very much like him, always trying and managing, to make someone smile no matter what was going on for them. It was such a shock and I still feel it, I feel for you all.

He was the Kingpin, number one on here and we all miss him. xxx

Dear Patricia,

So sorry for your loss, sleep peacefully kotc, xxx

Hello Patricia Mrs KOTC, please find some comfort in visiting us at any time. It was an honour to have met your Richard here, he always made us feel better, what a wonderful sense of humour he had! My deepest Sympathy to you and your family. xxxxx

RIP my friend. You will be with us in mind on this site for a long time yet. My deepest condolences to all family members.

Dave from the LoS.

Condolences Patricia & family, such sad news.

Sleep peacefully Richard.


Dear Patricia so thoughtful of you to send a post to all the site, Richard will be missed, not least by yourself and family my thoughts go with you at this sad time x

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