I would like to thank all of you who have responded to my post, I am so glad I have friends who have so much compassion and caring attitude. I wish you all lived nearer me and we could meet at some time. I feel quite lonely at the moment as my family do not have any feelings towards my brother and I am sure are quite relieved he is gone. Today was my 40th wedding anniversary, not the best I could have planned. Please do keep in touch, I need friends at the moment.