Thank you all for your comments on my blog from last night, your good advice and kind comments really means so much.
I arrived at my mums this morning to find her gasping for air. After I tried to persuade her to let me stay last night, and her refusal, she decided she would sleep downstairs on the sofa.
She tried to get to her commode and bloody fell, banging all one side of her chest. I could bloody choke her!!!
Called GP out, no infection but 'tight and wheezy', she is already on 30mg of prednisolone, so can't really increase them, but she said to use ventolin nebuliser as and when needed.
She asked my mum if she wanted to go to hospital, and she didn't want to, which I completely understand and accept.
When she was leaving I asked dr if this was the end, she didn't say yes, but said she was very frail.
I think we just have to make her as comfortable as possible now. She is taking 1.25mg of morphine that I can give her every two hours, with tramadol every four hours.
Needless to say, I am staying with her tonight, and probably every other night, until she either gets better or dies.