My problem does impact on my breathing - every time I think about this I get stressed and SOB.
You all know that my boy, David, has had bowel cancer and has just finished six months chemotherapy. He has been given a 'provisional' all clear. He is now waiting to have his bowel 'joined up'.
The poblem is that David's partner, Laura (who is a lovely caring person) has just left him. He came down to spend the weekend with me and some friends while she moved out of the house.
Do I tell him to 'get a grip'? I must admit that I am not happy about doing that. He is absolutely floored at the moment.
Do I tell him to get a grip or just carry on giving him a hug now and again?
Any suggestions gratefully received.