Afraid all the crossed things didnt help, we were told there is nothing they can do the back of the eyes have been damaged by surges in his blood pressure.
So there we go a new episode in our life is opening, the hospital are informing Social Services to see what help they can offer us.
Thank you for your support.
polly xx
Very disappointing, polly. I really wish you both my best wishes for the future.
Oh Polly, it's not the news we were hoping for. As Scrobbitty says, Social Services et al, will be actioned to assist you. In the meantime, we're here as an when you need us. Hugs to you both x x x
So sorry to hear your bad news. I will keep you in my prayers love to you both julie xx
It is much easier to speak to you on here than it is to relatives because you cant see me crying, thank you for caring.
polly xx
Oh Polly, that's such a shame. Hopefully you will get all the help you need to make life easier for you and you never have to feel as bad as you do now ever again. Libby
Oh dear Polly and hubby that's not the news you needed or wanted sweetie. You know we are all here for you anytime.
Ann x x
I am so sorry for your news Polly, Love to both of you. Anna x
So sorry Polly, I,ll add my prayers to the others & hope you get everything you need to make life a little easier
hugs
Karen xxxx
So sorry for this news Polly, Hope social services can come up with lots of good help and support for you both to make things easier and more manageable.
So sorry to hear the news, let's hope social sevices come up trumps. Wish there was more I could do for real. Take care and remember someone is always here to listen.
hugs
Tina x
Oh polly that's such bad news, not what we were all hoping for.
I pry services can provide everything you need.
We'll always be here for you.
Lots of love Chris
Certainly not the hoped-for outcome for either of you pollyjj 
but - and I know this won't be much of a consolation at the moment - at least your beloved hubby is still there with you 
and, with the advances that are being made in science and medicine as we write, who knows what's around the corner 
Keep on keeping on hoping ....
xxx
and
((((( hugs )))))
Thanks everyone I am sure things will look brighter in the morning at the moment I am very sad for me and my hubby and I worry what will happen when I get ill, because I will not be able to look after him, still something to discuss with Social Services, does anyone think they will help because I am doubtfull.
My hubby told the doc he had his heart tested and they said he had one.
The doc said no my hubby had my heart and I had his.
I thought that was lovely and so true.
polly xx
Social services have a duty to help you.Tell them that you want to know about everything that is available to you.
Tell them that you would like a home visit.It is much more comfortable to talk in your own home.
Try getting some advice from AGE UK or BLF on what questions/answers you will need to know about
Richard
KOTC
As a newbie I don't say much...just sit and read which helps in so many ways. I should say a lot of thoughts are with you today, mine included. Love Mave x
I'm so sorry that this was bad news. I hope that you are able to get the support you need. Take care with much love TAD xx
Polly I'm so sorry to hear this, it must be so difficult for you both.
I believe you can ask your GP for a referral to the practice Occupational Therapist, she/he will come to your home to assess what free aids and adjustments they can provide.
All the best to you both. XX
Sorry to hear this. A relative of mine has had a huge amount of help and support fron the RNIB (Royal National Institute for the Blind), which has enabled her to live independently - her husband died some years ago and despite the deterioration in her sight she manages alone in her flat. Despite their name they help anyone that has sight loss; you don't have to be blind. I'd really recommend them.
Hi Pollyjj, Social services will help so be sure of that. So sorry to hear of your news and hope that you can and do get all the help out there that you can. Thinking of you both. xxxxx
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