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Home or hospital - which?

Love100cats
Love100cats
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I just want to say a big thank you to all who supported me and gave me sound advice in looking after my husband. Sadly he passed away this morning at home in his own bed. He was calm and pain free. It's been quite a journey but I know it was the right thing to care for him at home. Towards the end I had so much support from different agencies exactly when I needed it. Now I need to concentrate on my own heart and rebuild my life.

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Myers

Thinking of you xxx

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Lezzers

I'm so glad you were able to look after your husband at home.

I hope that in time you will be able to take comfort from knowing the amazing care & love you gave to your husband couldn't have been bettered.

Please now do look after yourself, stay with this group and if/when you need support we are all here to listen.

Massive hugs for you xx

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chubby2x22

Well done to you itcouldnt have been easy, but I so wish that my last breath can be at home. Take care.

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Prada47

Hi Lovecats

You have done brilliantly

Heart Felt Condolences to You

Prada

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ling

God bless you.

Deepest condolences : (

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marypw

Sending you love and condolences and yes, you need to take care of yourself now xx

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Calliope153

Sending love and many thoughts. xx

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MichaelJH
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Sorry to hear your news. Thoughts are with you...

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Milkfairy
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Love100cats

Thank you for taking the time to share this news with us all.

You have been amazing giving the very best of your love to your husband. A wonderful selfless gift of love and caring on your part.

Please now take care of yourself too.

Sending my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

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Hoski

So sorry for your loss. Now is time to make sure you are getting plenty of rest, eating healthily and taking good care of you. The stress and strain of what you have been thru is huge so learn to accept help from others, say no when you need to, turn your phone off and rest.

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Deano_H

I’m so sorry for your loss Love100cats.

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NorthantsSteve

So sorry to hear about your loss Love100cats. Glad you got the support you needed in the end. Time to focus on yourself and good memories now. Take care.

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Sunnie2day

All of the above. Deepest condolences on your loss, and yes, now it is time to concentrate on you. Peace be with you.

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Mirador19

Sorry to hear your sad news. Look after yourself and my thoughts are with you. xx

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Gladwyn

So sorry 💐

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Rose54

I am so sorry to hear about your lose

Will keep you in my prayers

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SpiritoftheFloyd

Many condolences, so sorry to hear your sad news. Please take care and look after yourself.

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HHH2017

Im so sorry for the sad loss of your husband. You are in my thoughts & prayers. Take care of yourself x

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VelvetSky

So sorry to hear your news, take time for yourself now.

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lettingoffsteam

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Love100cats.Be kind to yourself and take things gently.It will be a busy time so remember to rest.

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