In my last few posts I have mentioned masturbation in my first one I was asking for a friend in my second one on my profile I was asking if what I described sounded like I had had an orgasm.
In this one I’m questioning it along the same lines again. I’ve been masturbating for a few weeks now with and without a vibrator. However, since my last post I haven’t been able to have any strong sexual pleasurable feelings. It’s kind of like my body has shut down if that’s possible? My clitoris isn’t sensitive. I hear so many people online saying that it’s like a pleasure button and when you use it you orgasm however it’s not like that for me and I don’t think it ever has been. So I don’t know what to do. I feel pleasure when I use my vibrator but I don’t want to get used to using that too much as I know it can desensitise you further and I don’t want to have to rely on that when at some point in the future I’ll have a sexual partner.
What should I do?
Any advice would be appreciated!
I don't think using a vibrator or any other form of clitoral stimulation "desensitises" you. there can be many factors why sexual function may be affected - stress , depression, medication to help with these issues etc. Even your anxiety about sexual function may affect it . There are different forms of orgasm in women and different areas that women find stimulating . I am sure with a sexual partner sexual activity would be fine.
You do get used to one form over another, rather than getting desensitised. Maybe that's what OP means?
Thank you