Abortion and future? : I’m 19 and Iv had 2 abortions... - BASHH

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Abortion and future?

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I’m 19 and Iv had 2 abortions and about to go for my 3rd. Is it less likely for me to get pregnant in the future or will I be okay? I’m getting scared. I’m not in the right place to be having a baby at this moment and I’m not in a stable relationship, we’re starting new again. So I’m very worried about my future to conceive or if I want to conceive in about a years time? Please help me

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toastkid

The whole "if you have abortions you will find it hard to get pregnant" thing is a myth designed to scare you. You should not find it harder to get pregnant.

You should look into getting on a form of contraception to prevent further pregnancies until you're ready to have a baby though.

healthline.com/health/women....

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Nikita1974

Hi I’ve just read your message, firstly I’m so sorry you are going through this again, I have had three terminations myself. You need to get a trustworthy contraception ASAP, I have tried to get pregnant since my abortions but had no luck. It sounds like you are in need of support, I’m here if you want to talk .

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saj01

From what I understand there should be no problem conceiving again, although it was thought at one point that there was due to the different methods used for termination. What seems to be more common in those who have had multiple abortions that births seem to be a bit earlier, i.e. not carrying for the full term.

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Sour_rants197

use bloody condoms and the after pill , if you dont yet want a child , as its using resources that we dont have much of ...

on terms of fertility , go to your local gp or doctor for advice

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Niki_

Every abortion you have yes absolutely puts your womb at risk for not being able to carry a baby! My sister had one abortion and is now completely baron! You need to find birth control! These are actual human beings whisk life is being taken from them with each abortion!

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Bright33

First of all we can all make mistakes once but we learn from it. You would be much better on the pill and getting counselling as to why you feel the need to get pregnant by every boy you're with.

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