Hello - new to this, so here goes...
So I have been with my partner 4 years and when we first got together we contracted Chlamydia & Gonorrhoea (obviously from previous people - we have always been faithful I absolutely know that). We took a course of antibiotics and then got our results back that it hadn’t gone, so we then took another course and we finally got the all clear this was 3 & a half years ago. Ever since then I suffer with recurrent BV & Thrush, literally I live with it I just have to get on and as women could understand it really brings me down. We are TTC and have been for a year, however I did miscarry last year sadly at 10 weeks + 2. I have read that BV can cause this, has anyone else experienced a loss and BV be the reason why? I’ve read a few things online that Chlamydia could just re-occur or re-infect as such. Has or is anyone in the same position as me? I didn’t think it could just come back being with the same partner and honest to God I know my partner has not cheated on me and nor have I. I now have what I think is thrush.. however my discharge has gone from white cottage like to thin & watery but the itching sensation is still there. I am using cream, but I have never used a pessary sounds stupid but the thought of it cringes me out. Could it be because I haven’t used a pessary ever to clear the infection the reason I am getting infected often? Does the pessary actually help?
I was referred to the gynaecologist and had several tests to find out why I was suffering with the recurrent infections but they literally could not find anything in their words I am “textbook” - I then was discharged from Gynae March last year & fell pregnant in May & miscarried in July since then we have been TTC and so far no long. I was then referred back to Gynae and my appointment was supposed to be at the end of March this year but obviously because of lockdown & coronavirus it was cancelled until further notice. I have major health anxiety everything scares me so if anyone has been in my position and has any advice at all it would be appreciated. I just want to be a Mother and I want to give the man I love the family he deserves.
Could I still have an sti even tho we both got the all clear & neither of us have been unfaithful?!