HELP PLEASE SPOT ON PENIS: Today i tried to take my gf... - BASHH


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Today i tried to take my gf virginity we tried without a condom but she was too tight and we stopped .

This spot was on my penis 5 minutes after the act . I didnt even came i put it in her only 1 time and i pushed a lot because she was to tight . Please tell me what is this im paniced. Sorry if my english is bad its my third language . Its not itching or hurting it doesnt burn when i pee . Please answer me im so panicked right know.

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Dont worried It will be better.


at this stage it doesn't seem to be anything to be worried about, maybe it is where you have tried to hard and forced when you tried to penetrate, you need to relax with this kind of activity, keep monitoring for a few days and it should go away, if it doesn't maybe get an appointment to see your doctor, it doesn't sound or look like an infection at this stage,

good luck

It is highly unlikely to be anything serious. Highly unlikely! The reasons: it appeared minutes after attempted penetration and she was a virgin.

Any Sexually Transmitted Diseases do take a while - days - to show.

But - and it's a big but - you are being very silly if you are attempting intercourse with out a condom! Do you want her to get pregnant? It is a 100% myth that you cannot get pregant the first time!

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_Fastbender in reply to 3simon

Sensible reply and of course it is nothing to worry about in itself ! . Many first time sexual encounters can cause slight trauma if either or both participants' are virgins. For males especially!' And of course being on the outside more visible. Females also can suffer redness and feelings of tender to the touch areas. Unlike us guys they can't exactly put theirs in their hand and have a proper look and chat to it if you pardon the injected attempt at humour. It's more of a mixture of mirror, look , manoeuvre if the fairer sex , (females) want to see their bits for redness cuts or abrasions . I guess you will both have to be patient and more calm where involuntary tightening of a woman's vagina wont be helping any. It's a big deal ,she is about to have sex for the very first time , give up her virginity just for you. Can you imagine some of her thoughts and emotions going through her head !. For as much as she obviously wants and desires you, a little fear of the unknown or and wanting it to be right and nice for you also can cause real anxiety, hence the dry tightness. Be patient, be loving, be gentle. But most of all be sensible! Get Fred , Bob , wicked William, lol . Whatever you both end up calling him ! !*. A rain coat. A rubber, FL, protection. Be Safe ! Keep her safe. It's One of the most loving gestures you can make to someone that you feel for or love. True they ain't great and yes.they do rob you of a bit of sensativity. But if you both end up in a relationship with each other and ain't sleeping around bed hopping ! Then there are alternative forms of contraception that Fred won't have to be wearing !!. Hope live has treated you well as I noticed that your post was 2 yrs old !. Hope this is.of help to anyone reading it. Take care 😊.

I don't think it's anything serious. Maybe she wasn't wet enough and it bruise the head etc, not sure but reading your statement you have ntg to worry about

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