My Husband tells me he's bisexual

[s34n]

my husband (who I believed was magonamous and hetrosexual) has got involved with online porn/chat rooms and meeting up with men and women for sex. Is there any help out there for me - all I can find is help for him......He is also emotionally abusive could he be gay and not even bi?

[sipho]

forget the fact that he is bi sexual look on the love he give you. if he can give love thats all matters, you must just sit down with him and try to get all facts and his future plans about bi sexual life style.if he is inlove with you or what...

[s34n]

Thanks for replying - really appreciate it

mmmmmmm trouble is when I look back at our marriage all I can see is emotional abuse - could it be that he always wanted something other than me and emotionally beat me up because I wasn't other?

He also is now denying his bi (or gay) part of him which is so sad......

He says he loves me but his actions say he hates me........

I think I still love him but my heart breaks every time I think of him with the other people - male and female and the way he tried to hide it from me and the lies he told to keep his secret

I feel dirty and used and betrayed and deeply deeply hurt. My world has fallen apart - but maybe it was a fake world anyway