I'm asking this question for a friend (yes honestly lol, his first language isn't English so he wanted me to do it for him!). It's all pretty complicated but recently he has met another guy and he wants to get intimate with him, but the other guy has recently found out he has HIV. As such he is not on any medication for it so I presume his count (?) will be fairly high. What my friend wants to know is what is it safe to do with him? At the minute his ideas are:
Mutual masturbation (without a condom)
Oral sex (both giving and receiving, but the guy with HIV will be wearing a condom)
So are these safe to do with the guy (especially with him not being on medication) and what chance is there of him catching anything (I know the concept of chance of catching isn't a great one)? He's a bit of a paranoid personality when it comes to this sort of thing... The idea of intercourse is a bit of a no at the minute but are the risks for that high if he uses a condom?
I know that's a lot of questions, but any advice will be useful. If there's any doctors out there who might be able to help, even better!
Thanks a lot