I havent long been out of hospital after a chest infection and such and was taken to ITU twice!!! \I was in for a total of 10 days the longest I have had to stay for a while. I was taken ill when I was at the cinema with my friend. She was fine when I was ill came with me to the hospital and stayed calm but after she left I hardly heard from her. When I got home she was quizzing me on why I was in so long and that. Then she started saying that i should count myself lucky I dont have cancer and I wasnt in for 5 weeks like her nan. Me being me I dont count myself lucky by not having cancer and defended this comment saying that my asthma is likely to kill me and although I dont have cancer SOMETIMES i ish i did (support network understanding etc.) and tried to remind her that I am only 22 and her nan who had cancer is 80 odd and is likely to die in 10 years with or without cancer. Now she isnt talking to me and is female doging behind my back about me getting other onto her side saying I was being selffish.