As most people know, Emma is in hospital. She keeps having setbacks - I am spacing myself from her because it is taking a lot out of me both physically and emotionally. If anything changes, her doctor is ringing us up and letting us know what's happened and what condition Emma is in. She had a bad night last night and my hubby's phone was constantly going off. Even though I'm not with her yet, I can't help laying in bed thinking I should do XYZ differently, then ABC would have gone differently. Its making me feel like I'm failing at parenting and I feel crap about it. Does anyone have any tips or advice on how to deal with this sort of thing?