What do I do??

[ksturkey]

The beginning of January is when I left home to stay with my boyfriend. Since I've been gone my mom won't stop calling/texting me saying very hurtful things but she wants me to spend more time with her. Every single time I come back to my mom's house we get into an argument about me living with him. She tells me that she wants me back home one minute and then tells me I will never make it in life the next minute. Everyone else in my family has supported my decision and says to do what makes me happy and that just happens to be living with my boyfriend. My mom tells me that this is the biggest mistake of my life and that she knows what is best for me. I've withdrawn from University because of financial situations, I just got a job that is over an hour from home; it is 45 minutes from my mom's house. I don't know if moving back in with her will make things better or worse, because every time she calls me whenever we hang up I will have an anxiety attack and when I am here and we argue it is the same way.