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Why do some people turn to food when they are anxious, does it make them feel good for a while, does anyone on here overeat because of anxiety etc?

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Bird-67 profile image
Bird-67

Yes I do I'm afraid but it doesn' really help as I then feel guilty.

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When you are actually eating how does it make you feel at the time?

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I feel content and don't want it to end.

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You want to keep eating?

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Yes

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Is it particular types of food that you eat?

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Bird-67 in reply to

Yes sweet food

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Does it give you a sugar rush?

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Bird-67 in reply to

Not really

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So why do you go for sweet food?

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Bird-67 in reply to

Just because I like it and I also crave it.

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Ok thanks for taking the time to reply to me, I appreciate it a lot.

Take care Bird.

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Yes x

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Sweets. Chocolate. X

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Always sweet stuff then just like everyone else it seems.

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Yeah. X sometimes carbs tho.

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It sounds awful.

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Aye it is but its not evry nite thank god. X

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Thank goodness for that. You are ok most nights then?

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Last nite I binged and ive already started bingeing tnite. Hopefully this will be the last night. I can go weeks or months without bingeing and then the disorder grabs me by the throat again. X

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Can't you just get up and walk away until the urge stops?

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I don't want to keep eating but I can't stop till the foods all finished and I feel.sick. x

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It sounds very complicated and hard to understand.

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Crap. X

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Crap?

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Yes that's how I feel.wen am bingeing on food. X

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Ok, it must be a really strong urge if you can't stop yourself.

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Yeah that's why it's an eating disorder. X

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mysmugcat

Yes it can be comfort for me. I was anorexic. I'm not overweight now I'm slim not that that matters. I am talking about eating disorders. One can have binge eating disorders too.

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Was there something about the food that made it a comfort?

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Cheche1207

I can't eat when im anxious. I lose my appetite in the split of a second when it hits me out of the blue.

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So do you go for long periods without food because of it?

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Cheche1207 in reply to

A day. Then i get the tense feeling in my tummy later on. Then i eat. I do the breathing technique over and over until ifeel calm.

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You know what to expect from it then?

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Yes. It helps more when my husband is around. I often ask him to hug me real tight. Doing the deep breathing at the same time. It works for me. How about you Jimatom?

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I used to have anxiety but I never used food for comfort. I always wondered though why some people do and how it made them feel.

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How did you cope?

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To stop it, I made myself busy, found distractions, began to learn new things. I changed my diet and some more exercise.

Eventually my mind was filled with stuff that took my thoughts away from my anxiety.

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I started going to the gym. Sweating it out for 2 days now and i noticed a vast difference. I did all the wrong things the past months to get rid of it. I only made it bad

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I think the exercise was the biggest factor for me, it made the biggest difference. But all if the other little things seemed to fill in the gaps.

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Thats awesome. Im glad you fought back the right way. Im heading on the same path. Will keep the exercise going :)

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If you are this determined then you will make it.

Chat to me anytime you want to.

😊

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Emest86

Eating actually changes the way your body works. As your energy is now on your digestive system. Also chewing and swallowing actually releases tension in the mouth. This is why people feel calmer when eating. There are scientific reasons behind it :) I eat when anxious sometimes and then others I feel too sick to eat but that's the joy of anxiety it is ever changing :(

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Do you eat a particular type of food when you are anxious?

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Nope, absolutely anything will do. From fruit to chocolate it doesn't matter really. I don't believe that the chemicals within food make a difference whilst I'm panicking.

I have to ask are you doing research for your own anxiety or for another reason?

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I have always been curious about this, not for any particular reason. I hope you don't mind.

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Emest86 in reply to

No I don't mind i just wondered :)

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Ok thankyou, I might think of more stuff to ask. ☺

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That's fine. I might not always answer quickly as my career has to read and type for me as I have very poor eyesight but if I can help I will :)

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Ok thanks again 😀

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Hi emest86 I can totally relate to wot u say. X

Food is the last thing on my mind when im anxious, i can't eat i feel something in my throat it's even hard to drink water..... same thing happen when i lie, the guilt be eating me alive

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The throat thing is common with anxiety though. Is it because the muscles in the neck tense up.

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Either way nothing goes down, i wish i could be one of the people who eat chocolates and sweet stuff... that would be awesome

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Do you don't have anything when you are like that?

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I can't have anything at all, even drinking water is a struggle

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It must be hard to cope if it lasts for a while.

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Hi callmedanielle...and I wish I was like u and that I couldnt eat anything wen am anxious. X

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I wish i could. Its like my throat is on lockdown

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Hi callmedanielle it's funny how we r all affected differently by anxiety. Sumtimes wen I'm anxious during the day wen I eat food it sticks in my windpipe which can be scary. X

Hi jimatom. Jeez 100 % YES. I binge eat esp at night coza anxiety. X p.s I'm so glad I'm not alone with this issue coz it's a real problem for me coz am trying to lose weight. X

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Why do you turn to food?

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Hi jimatom cos I have an eating disorder. X

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Ok, thanks for answering me and thank you very much for following me too. ☺☺☺

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No problemo...ur welcum. X

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You too.

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highwinds

I eat when I’m anxious because I want something to do with my hands and I used to be a smoker. When there’s nothing close to fidget with I eat. Also by me eating I’m putting my hand to my mouth and it’s the same motion as me smoking. I don’t do it every time I’m anxious but when my anxiety is on high alert I do.

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Is it to do with boredom too?

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highwinds in reply to

I don’t think so. Usually when I’m bored I drink water. I’ve tried to make that a habit so I don’t eat.

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I was always told that smoking had something to do with the hands, you know what I mean?

Didn't realise it had an effect on making you eat.

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ImFopna

I tend to go off food 🍲

I feel a need to punish myself 😔

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Really! Punish yourself for what?

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ImFopna

I guess that's just how I think..

I used to over eat and then did weight watchers, I taught my self how to get over hunger pains, I was strong then and lost 20kg...

I guess I use that technique now when I feel low, maybe to try be strong like I used to be?

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Does it work for you?

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Mjones0103

I overeat as well if I'm not googling the internet. I always go for sweet stuff too and feel like I can't stop until I get a stomachache. Then I feel guilty that I did that to myself.

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Do you know why you do it?

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I guess I feel like I need to do something to occupy my mind to stop being so anxious so I turn to food. It doesn't help

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Have you tried doing something else?

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Mjones0103

I've tried reading, watching tv, coloring and listening to relaxing music. The coloring and the music actually help more than the food. But I don't know for some reason a crave sweet stuff when I'm anxious.

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It seems lots of people crave sweet stuff when anxious.

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Mjones0103

Yes, I wish I knew why.

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Maybe it just tastes good or something.

Doesn't seem to be to many men on here that do this. Or maybe they just don't talk about it.

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Mjones0103

Yeah. That could be the case. I use to never be a sweet eater. I like salty food. I would use to grab a bag of chips or crackers before a doughnut or cookies or ice cream. But now I find myself grabbing sweets every time.

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There must be a reason for the sweet stuff.

If you didn't buy the sweet stuff what would you do?

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Mjones0103

I can't help but buy it. I feel anxious if I don't have sweet stuff in the fridge or the cabinet. I have to have something sweet at my house at all times. If I found that I have ran out I have to go to the store and get something. A candy bar anything

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Is it an addiction?

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Mjones0103

I don't know. I know here lately I have been wanting to eat sweet stuff in place of my dinner. For example I have been eating cake and ice cream for dinner all week instead of eating real food. And I cringe when I get on the scale because I know what's causing it and I don't want to stop.

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That's awful!

Can't you get any help with it?

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I've been to counseling before. I don't feel like that did anything for me. Maybe I just didn't fit well with the therapist. I know I need help. I try to block it out that I don't but I know I do. I fear I'm going to turn into a diabetic because I can't stop eating junk and that makes me even more anxious and want to eat junk more. It's crazy

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Another therapist wouldnt be worth a try?

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Mjones0103 in reply to

I believe it would. I actually called and had an appointment scheduled to see another one but I canceled because of scheduling conflict. I'm going to call back and reschedule

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I hope it helps you.

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Mjones0103 in reply to

Thanks. Me too

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Come chat anytime you like.

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Mjones0103 in reply to

Thank you. I will definitely be taking you up on that

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Good ☺

Ifs23 profile image
Ifs23

Yes I do sometimes, I either eat something to take my mind off what's going on or I either feel too sick to eat anything.

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Do you have two things related to food then.

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Ifs23 in reply to

Yes I do. Some foods make me feel good but when I'm too anxious and upset, I just feel sick.

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Is it sweet food that makes you feel good?

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Ifs23 in reply to

Yes, especially chocolate

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I think chocolate has an effect on a lot of people.

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menagerie11

Not me. Anxiety has the opposite effect on me and I have to force myself to eat. However, I can understand why some people would turn to food; food can be very comforting to some people.

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Do you go long spells without food?

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asianspirit in reply to menagerie11

Same with me. I tend to not have a good appetite. Always feels like I'm full. So I force myself to eat at least.

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menagerie11

I go for hours without food but I force myself to eat supper. I often have a banana and muffin during the day.

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You don't eat a lot then.

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Not as much as I should.

think about it, we have been comforted by feeding since our lives begun its a luxury most can afford and offer immediate results and one of the easiest task ones can do

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That's a good point.

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20Voices

I never thought about it a the time, but I think I could trace my anxiety levels increase by my increased consumption of chocolate. I think rising anxiety and stress caused the increase in

At my worst I was eating up to 6 bars of chocolate a day, I gained a lot of weight and ended up with a fatty liver. My BMI was in the overweight range.

Now I have chocolate maybe once or twice a month and find that just eating a Kit-Kat is enough. I have lost over 2 stone in weight and my liver function tests are all back to normal. My BMI is in the normal range again.

I had a bad time a few months ago and pigged out on chocolate again. Felt really horrible afterwards.

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So it had a huge effect on you then, made you I'll. Why chocolate though?

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Not really sure why chocolate, but it had to be certain types as well just not any chocolate.

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That's very interesting.

i overeat because of anxiety. it makes me feel better and relieves the anxiety for few hours

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It doesn't bother you at all?

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bother is a small word. it makes me worry. due to that anxiety overeating, i gained 30 pounds and it took hell lot of efforts and months of gymming to get back in shape

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But you managed to get into shape again, brilliant!

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thank you

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Yw

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