Waiting is killing me

[Betha]

So yesterday I decided to have a full test of STD testing! I had unprotected sex recently and got a cold and an irritation on my stomach! I am now waiting for the tests! I already took a home HIV test and it was negative! But I am not convinced so I took one at the doctors with other tests! Please help I am so afraid!

[Brumchick]

I understand that you are scared .I too was in a position of having to test for everything after my husband declared he was gay.I had to get tested in 88 when hardly anyone knew anything about hiv.I was lucky i was in the clear.However it must be said what in the world were u thinking? No one should be having unprotected sex unless trying for a baby or in a very stable trustfilled relationship., ie long term partners or married people who remain monogamus.i think you will be ok.Its not so easy to contract hiv as you would think.?There are other nasties out there like syphillis that is immune to antibiotics .... how bout that one!! Really take this as a wake up call.Mo one is that carried away that they cannot protect themselves. my ex hubby has been unlucky enough to test positive after many years of being in a respectful relationship.It can happen. You dont need to be gay! Please protect yourself at all times.Remember how this fees next time you are feeling reckless.I fully expect you to be ok however , a d if you have picked something up like chlamidia ,rife in the straight community ..rife everywhere really. At least it is easily fixed.Herpes is another horror out there .Remember viruses cannot be cured ,only trested and lived with .Try to relax. Channces are in your favour . remember always carry a condom... always!! girl or boy..

Good luck

Brumchick.

[Betha in reply to Brumchick]

Thank you! Everything came out negative!