A message for why why if she is reading posts.

I usually check this site a couple of times a week so have missed a lot of what has happened. I have no idea what has gone on but I would like to say thankyou to why why for acknowledging my past posts. I hope you have recovered from the flu and would suggest a flu jab as you can get it more than once in a season. I am like you and hate medication but always have a flu jab as the flu can be deadly and I find it is better to get the jab than worry all winter about the flu. I have never had a side effect with it and would not do without it. I wish you all the best if you are reading this.

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Hi cathia,

Why was targeted for no good reason and harassed via private messaging. It was something that was going on for months but the person kept deleting the account and changing their username so it was difficult to trace them, and very recently, Whywhy the realised once again the person had made a return. We've done what we can but we seem to have lost any moderation protection on here so they got away with it, and Whywhy felt she had no choice but to leave. It's completely wrong and unjustified. I've agreed with a few others that we are going to do the best we can to live on Whywhy's legacy of being there for others because this then means the person won't have completely won.

I miss whywhy too and if she doesn't already know I wish her all the luck in the world. I hope she might even reconsider coming back - even if it's just for a few hours or so she can take some of our email addresses and then she can contact us if she ever wants to...

Quite a few of us have joined Anxiety UK New Zealand, it's quiet but a pleasant community. Obviously we can't prevent the person who harassed Whywhy coming into the NZ community BUT, we do have admin who refuse to tolerate bullying, so we shouldn't have to worry about putting up with that rubbish again.

healthunlocked.com/anxietys...

Take care and kind regards,

wanderingwallflower xx

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Hi Funky Fairy, thankyou so much for taking the trouble to explain the situation to me. It is such a shame that things can be spoilt in this way. Why why was always seemed to have a soothing word for everyone. \best wishes, Cathia.

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You are so right Fay.

Bev x