advice.

[iamyukii]

so a lot has happened in my life recently and i decided to do big changes and move alone since ive been living with my ex boyfriend for a while now.

now the part where i need advice is that i haven’t told my ex boyfriend that im leaving. im scared and im not sure how to tell him either. im also scared for myself and how he’d react and what he’ll say. im supposed to be leaving in a little over a week.

any advice on how to say this to him??

[Adamj]

do you have a safe person that you could have there when you tell him? Sometimes being honest with someone is the hardest part but once it comes out it’s usually easier and gets that stress of your chest.

[Itzallgood1 in reply to Adamj]

Thats a great

[iamyukii in reply to Adamj]

yeah i do have someone i could go to. it’s just he tends to get very angry easily and it scares me, that’s why im not sure when to mention this.

[designguy]

You might trust your instincts and just leave and get to a safe place before you tell him, it sounds like you could be in a situation that could turn abusive or violent and you need to protect yourself and put your self first.