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I have made myself sick in the past

Because of ptsd

And from my wrong doings

Because of him mainly

I can be free from the pain

But I won’t cause others pain like he did

We share the pain

Tell me when it’s time to be with you in heaven

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Sueislove

????

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Sueislove

Hi not sure what you mean by this post can you explain ….. tell me when it’s time for you to be in heaven ?

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ElephantsHear

What’s going on Starrlight. It almost sound like a poem. Who is he?

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Starrlight in reply to ElephantsHear

Hi ElephantsHear. He is my brother❤️

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melbrown

🫂💗

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Starrlight in reply to melbrown

❤️

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Starrlight

My brother killed himself and it really fucked me up I was already messed up to some degree. I would sabotage myself by making very poor choices and i still struggle with that and I just quit drinking this time I think for good I feelLike I don’t belong in this world.

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Sueislove in reply to Starrlight

I am so sorry my condolences my friend ! You have a heart of gold and are stronger than you think . Praying for strength and healing and hugs your way !🙏❤️

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Survivor1687 in reply to Starrlight

I've also lost my brother to a death that was ruled a suicide. It is not something I speak much about or share with many people and def is not something I ever want to have in common with anyone, but I can absolutely relate to everything you just said. I'm sorry for your loss and admire your courage & strength! 💜((hugs))

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Starrlight in reply to Survivor1687

Survivor, thanks for sharing about your brother I know it’s hard to talk about so thanks for doing so as now I am less alone in it. I’ll always be here for you okay?

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Survivor1687 in reply to Starrlight

Here to support you too..💜 ((hugs)) It does help having someone who understands.

I hear you dear Starr. It hurts to read of your pain. You're right, you won't hurt your family that way. Remember, you are a brave, strong woman. Pain tries to to take it away. #$@!% him.

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Ah, my Belovéd, fill the Cup that clears

Today of past Regrets and future Fears:

Tomorrow!--Why, Tomorrow I may be

Myself with Yesterday's Sev'n thousand Years.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

You are very beautiful my friend. Thank you!!! ❤️ I love the poem

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

You're welcome. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Every moment away from hurt is a better moment.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

True. Wise words that I hope to remember. I am so sensitive sometimes then I start hating myself then it turns to worse things if I don’t take care of it while it’s small snd fresh... something as simple as my son talking to me disrespectfully like he is my boss I’ll just say ok that’s him and let it go.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Your words go right to the heart of it for me.

I have trouble with confrontation myself.

Life has hurt me deeply and often. What I've done with that, is learned to do everything possible to avoid hurting others.

Sounds good, right?

Not so much. I act like a doormat. I don't know how to stand up for myself until things have gone too far.

Then I hate myself for taking all the crap, and I'm furious at the "perp".

Ka-pow, I lose it, and hate myself more.

The best part of our special forum, for me, is talking with someone who knows.

Gee I wish you didn't know about this stuff. It's no fun, and a hard routine to break.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

We have to stand up strong but when we can’t manage do not beat yourself up because it is the bully’s fault not yours, not mine.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I'm nodding. I only just realized I better use words. 🤪

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

Haaaa you’re so funny!

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Florida1959

Sweetie, I hear you , but that was his choice, you are a wonderful lady, and have lots to live for, congrats on the drinking, that’s my downfall xxx

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Starrlight in reply to Florida1959

(((((((((((( hug)))))))))))) ❤️

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Thissucks37

Aw. I know you are speaking of your brother. I struggle the same way. I have always been messed up but my kids helped ground me. Since my son died by suicide I have given up trying to get better. I’ve tried all the medication and every other thing that’s come my way. BUT I can’t do that to my family as I know the pain that survivors go through. You basically pass your pain on to them. So I suffer in silence and wait until my time is up. You have your children and they need their mama. 💕

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Starrlight in reply to Thissucks37

I’m so so sorry. I don’t know what that is like. Yes let’s wait til our time is up. Write me any time

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