My sons father is so selfish. He won’t call my son. He expects my son to call him and then he doesn’t answer. He waits and calls back when it’s convenient. He stopped having my son come and visit when Covid started. Perfect excuse not to be a father. He has only seen his son for 12 hours since March 2020. He blames my son (14 years old). Saying he doesn’t call or want to come over.
This of course is not true. They live 40 minutes apart and I am more than willing to bring him anytime. He lies and says he tries to call my son all the time and he won’t answer. Not true. He shows me his phone. No calls.
He was excited to see his father at Thanksgiving. We went to my in-laws and I fully expected him there with his long time girlfriend. I was more than happy to go if it meant my son got to spend time with his dad. He never showed.
His dad wants him to worship him and beg for his attention. He has BPD and can’t stand to be around people that don’t think he’s the smartest person in the world. At this point I’m going to have to beg him to spend time with his son. Should I? His son really needs him. I’m lost.