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In order to lead a healthy life, in all ways, you must have balance. In my life there is no joy, no happiness just day after day of soul destroying misery. I have no friends, no hobbies, no interests , just nothing a black hole with no escape. I’ve had enough I just want to go and get it over with. I won’t take my own life but I’m 66 so their must be a better chances of developing some kind of life threatening condition for which I will not seek treatment. DNR s my end of life code.. I’ve had it, enough just let it all stop once and for all!

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Salma2289

I am really sorry for what you feel and i can understand how hard it is, but it’s never been late to find the life you love, start new friendships, try new hobbies every single day till you find it. And as you start asking believe me you gonna find the answers, hope you gonna be very fine and we are here all for you. Have a great day

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Agora1 in reply to Salma2289

Salma you are so right in that it's sad when we start to think "why even try"We are never too old. We should never have to start anew but be continuing

on the same life path. Things around us may change but we don't really change

in who we are and what we've wanted in our lifetime. :) xx

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Downandout123

I am so sorry to hear this. At one time, I could relate. Do you have any family? Children?

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samack

Isin,I know how it is as I am 62 and have been feeling the same way. How to restart a life at our ages? I see that if I think about the future I sink, but with decent meds, I can do day by day better. Its a living Hell, but we will move on and its OK not to know where we are headed

Please don't give up and wish illness upon yourself . Therapy will help.

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ray0

> In my life there is no joy, no happiness just day after day of soul destroying misery. I have no friends, no hobbies, no interests , just nothing a black hole with no escape.

This is what I'm likely to write. I feel you.

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