Anxiety and trust issues.

[Serene46]

I always seem to jump to conclusions with my guy. We aren’t together right now because I cut things off sort of. So he’s been chatting lately and went on vacation and last night I accused him of meeting a woman there. He sometimes goes quiet and I begin to get anxious and my thoughts run wild. And last night was bad and he is mad at my assumptions and said he was done. I have a hard time believe it and trusting because of bad experiences. So it seems like he isn’t with someone or he’s very convincing. My anxiety ruins things all the time with him. It tends to push him away. I don’t know how to fix it or what to say.

[Morphling]

Can you share with me

[Serene46]

Yes, please share.

[Midori]

Have you seen your doctor recently? I think it would probably be a good thing. Nobody likes to think they are not trusted in a relationship and you seem to be driving your fella away with the suspicion.

Cheers Midori

[Serene46 in reply to Midori]

I’m sure I have. And he’s angry and won’t talk to me anymore.