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Hello wonderful people I’m not doing well at the moment because my teacher is mad at me for being late which is not my fault I feel utterly ashamed because he humiliated me in class I am crying

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Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234

He’s a Bastard

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

I don’t like him he’s rude

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Hb2003

Put a smelly fish in his coat pocket

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

😂😂😂 I wish

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Hb2003

That’s the spirit .....just imagine that scene

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

I feel better now but I have a headache form crying 😕 I don’t like being sensitive and crying

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Hb2003

Well don’t be late again ...😄

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Sillysausage234

That’ll do 😆

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Sillysausage234 in reply to GreatMindfulness

🤷🏻‍♂️😁

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cassh22

What a disrespectful teacher! I’m sorry that happened. Don’t be upset with yourself though. Life happens and things don’t go as planned.

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Hb2003 in reply to cassh22

I wanted to tell him why i was late but I didn’t because I know that he would get more mad at me

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cassh22 in reply to Hb2003

Definitely been in a similar situation. Hopefully the rest of your day goes better! Someone told me we don’t have bad days we just experience bad moments.

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Hb2003 in reply to cassh22

Thank you ❤️☮️

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cassh22 in reply to Hb2003

Of course! 😻

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kenster1

punishment exercise for the teacher I MUST NOT SHOUT AT PUPILS x 1000.or 6 of the belt like we used to get.

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Hb2003 in reply to kenster1

exercise

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kenster1

yeah if we done something wrong at school one of the punishments would be to write I must not do whatever it was.or both hands out and lashed with a leather belt.

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003 in reply to kenster1

Ouch I am sorry but I think that doing that is wrong in my opinion

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kenster1 in reply to Hb2003

yeah it got banned in the 80s.

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Sillysausage234 in reply to kenster1

We had a mad science teacher used to chalk a big cross on a gym shoe and you had to bend over and put your head under a bench ....he used to spank us youde smack your head under the bench ...thinking back now must’ve been getting a kick out of it

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

I’m so sorry for you guys 🥺

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Hb2003

We should’ve behaved better

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

But still no right to hurt you

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Hb2003

The headmasters cane was a stinger 😅

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Hb2003 in reply to Sillysausage234

Oh my god

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Spanking, slapping hands at home and school was more than normal practice.

I still turned out okay. 😂

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Hb2003 in reply to

gosh that can cause trauma

in reply to Hb2003

It was normal back then. I don’t know to explain it.

All us kids had belts at home with our names on it and knew the disciplining methods in school. Keep your nose clean you didn’t get any of these.

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kenster1 in reply to Sillysausage234

yeah we had a mad science teacher I mind sticking my fingers up at him on the school bus in 1st year then I got him again in 4th year and he marched me to the headmaster about it like it was that day and I got suspended for 3 days and kept in the children`s home for the weekend the joys of school or lack of school in my case.

in reply to Sillysausage234

That science teacher was mad alright. Jeez. 😂

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mrmonk in reply to Sillysausage234

🙀youtu.be/YR5ApYxkU-U

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Sillysausage234 in reply to mrmonk

The teacher is Scottish think that was filmed in Kensters school.....never gets old 😀...thanks pal

in reply to Sillysausage234

What kind of weird, kinky nonsense.... 😂😂😂 At least you turned out ok

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Sillysausage234 in reply to

Definitely not one from the karma sutra handbook 😀......thanks that’s very kind of you to say ...😌

in reply to kenster1

It was hand slapping with a ruler back in my day.

For really bad offenses you sent to principal where the wood paddle had holes in it. 😬

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FearIsALiar in reply to

Back in 2005 or so my principle would get out the paddle for those bad students. I walked by the office and seen a kid get smacked with the paddle. I ran 😂😂 looking back now I’m a bit shocked that was even allowed? I was in a private school though

in reply to FearIsALiar

OMG, private school and this was still happening in 2005? Wow.

This kind of disciplining was in the mid 80’s, I for sure thought this type of discipline was no longer acceptable or fading out by in the 90s.

For a laugh, Back in the 80s in my graduating class, students didn’t get to graduate with the class for Senior pranks like putting a stolen Shoneys Big Boy statue on top of the school roof, another was putting an empty coffin on the roof, it was symbolizing High School Rest In Peace. I think my era was crazy time. 😂😂😂

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FearIsALiar in reply to

Crazy right!?? I was shocked to when I saw it happen. My dad would bring out the belt though when we would misbehave so it wasn’t anything new 😂

Omg that’s silly 😂😂😂 highschool days seemed like the good old days. Same with elementary school, no worry in the world. Wasn’t a big fan of middle school though lol..

in reply to FearIsALiar

I hated school. I had less than tentative parents invested in me doing anything with my life outside of school, like going to college or having a career so I did just enough to pass school.

I broke curfew a few times still living at home after high school (I graduated at 17) and my mom kicked me out just after my 18th bday. So all that displining going on didn’t work on me. 😂😂😂😂

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I didn’t like school much either but I miss seeing the friends I had everyday!

Oh my.. she kicked you out for breaking curfew?? Or because you graduated lol

in reply to FearIsALiar

I will say, the friendships and fun we had was priceless.

Haha...because I graduated. She probably would have loved seeing me repeat grades for punishment. 😄

She kicked me out because I broke curfew a few times too many. She said she was tired of me running her home like a hotel. My mom was ruthless.

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FearIsALiar in reply to

The pranks we would pull on friends and teachers were the best 😂😂

That must’ve been difficult to deal with. Did you at least have a job or a place to go before she kicked you out?? Or did she just do it without warning

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003

Hugs ❤️☮️

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jessicjames

Hey Honey! Let's just divert your mind and not talk about him anymore. People who don't care for other's emotions are not to cry for. You're an amazing person and we know it. How about reading some amazing anti-depressing tips? I'm sharing one of my favorites article (with quick tips) I've ever read. ezcareclinic.com/12-famous-...

My zodiac sign is Taurus and I really have a pathetic skincare routine lol. What about you?

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Hb2003 in reply to jessicjames

Thank you 😊❤️ I am a saggitourius and I love doctor who and paranormal stuff 😄

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jessicjames in reply to Hb2003

Haha my bad! I mistakenly shared some other article lol now edited. :D

I love Sagittarians! They are quite adventurous!

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Hb2003 in reply to jessicjames

I agree

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kenster1

I got locked in an empty classroom for an hour and a half as punishment so I just sat and smoked half my cigarettes.

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Dolphin14 in reply to kenster1

You crack me up! Great sense of humor,

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Charl-

I used to have a maths teacher who was like that. One day, I had to leave school early as an emergency and had homework due in that day, he'd already stressed detention or isolation if it were late. So I went and interrupted his class to hand my homework in before I left. He made me wait outside, proceeded to shout and ball at me, ripped my book out of my hand and slammed the door. I never went back to his class, swapped classes (I was a deputy heads teachers pet) 😂.

Tell someone you can, express how he's making you feel and refuse to go x

That's not cool. He should be reported and made to apologize to you in front of the class.

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Hb2003 in reply to

I want to move to a different class

in reply to Hb2003

What class does he teach?

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Hb2003 in reply to

AL

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Hb2003 in reply to

Academic lab basically a period where I finish homework

in reply to Hb2003

Still. Not cool.

in reply to Hb2003

So, like, Study Hall?

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Hb2003 in reply to

Yes

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Well that's just rude and ridiculous 🙄 It seems like you're feeling better now, but your teacher needs to chill. Next time, tell him patience is a virtue and good things come to those who wait (you're the "good thing" 😂😉)

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Hb2003 in reply to

Yes 😂😂

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Can you tell I was sassy in high school? 😂

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Hb2003 in reply to

no ☺️

in reply to Hb2003

You lie like a rug Miss Hiba 😂😂

My Honors English teacher nicknamed me D.C. in my sophomore year... It stood for Demon Child 😈 It stuck, and that's what everyone (students AND teachers) called me til I graduated 😅

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Hb2003 in reply to

😂😂😂 I am so sorry Jasmin

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😂 Oh no worries, I loved it. And he was one of my most favorite teachers of all time, so I wore the name as a badge of honor. He didn't bother giving nicknames to other kids. I was special. And a troublemaker. With a bad attitude. But in a special way 🤪😂

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Hb2003 in reply to

Lol 😂

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Hb2003 in reply to

Telling the truth you are not sassy 😂😂 💁‍♀️

in reply to Hb2003

Well not to you! I like you ❤️😊

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Hb2003 in reply to

😄

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Hb2003 in reply to

I translated a French recipe for Ftir

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Yass_123

Hi its ok try not keep think about it some things aren't worth crying over some of us are sensitive and get embarrassed if told off in front others try make uselef s stronger because u may find more challenges especially if u go to work

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Hb2003 in reply to Yass_123

That is true

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Yass_123 in reply to Hb2003

And especially if people notice u are sensitive they tend to do it more think positive be strong there much more to face take care

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Hb2003 in reply to Yass_123

Thanks for that

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GreatMindfulness

I’m sorry to hear that Sweetie 😢. He shouldn’t be too harsh on you guyz. I hope you feel better by now and I find having a good lunch help 🤗❤️xox

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

I didn’t eat lunch today because of peer tutoring

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

So what is your current status now? You gotta eat something to elevate your mood 🤣🤗

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

I am alright it took me a long time to calm down ☹️ Usually I calm down pretty fast

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

I’m glad you feel alright now. It can be the heat at the moment. When my teach was being mean, I wrote him off for being “hangry” 🤣🤣

HB, I had a teacher in 9th grade that absolutely hated me. I’ll never forget her, but I was always in trouble in her class. I was a loud in class on occasion. I got sent to the hallway to spend class standing, not sitting alone out there a lot. She verbally called me out and loved humiliating me and other students. She was ruthless.

That said I understand what you are going through, I’m so sorry you have a teacher that humiliated you in class. It’s the worst. Remember he/she isn’t mad at you, they just have a power trip and like doing this for some reason. I hope you are feeling better now. Get some rest this evening. 🌺💜

That's absolutely disgusting, canyou report him?

I'm sending you virtual hugs and wish I could help.

Alicia 💜💜 xx

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003 in reply to

I wish I could but I will not because i don’t want to cause trouble

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

If you bring him ur mom lemon meringue pie, will he be nice to you? 🤔😋

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

lol 😂 yes

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Seeee, problem solved 😂😂😂Win-Win situation. Everyone gets a slice of pie 🤣🤣🤣

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

I wish I was allowed to bring food😂😂

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Hiba who knows, try it maybe policy will change 🤣🤣

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

I would get in trouble

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

I was joking sweetie. Lunch time is great to share pie with everyone 🤗

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Also my mom made lemon meringue pie but it’s a different recipe 😄

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Which recipe is ur fav?

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

The one that my mom makes all the time 😄

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Bring that one 😆

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

People would be begging for more 😄😂😂

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

It has the perfect amount of sweetness it doesn’t taste sour at all than the recipe that my moms just made

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

I like how this is going. Yes think pie and you’ll be happy 🥰🥰

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

you guys make me happy as well 😄❤️

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

😻😻😻😻

in reply to Hb2003

It's really awful that you've been treated so badly xx💜💜

Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003 in reply to

yeah it is I silently cried and out my head down and texted my mom about the situation

in reply to Hb2003

I'm glad you were able to text your mom. Just keep talking, we're here to listen. xx💜

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Hb2003 in reply to

Thank you so much 😄❤️☮️

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You're welcome and sending you my thoughts xx💜💜

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mrmonk

I'm so sorry that happened to you, Hiba. No teacher should ever humiliate any student. I hope you feel better soon.

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Hb2003 in reply to mrmonk

Thanks mr Monk 😄 I feel better

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FifLove

I’m so sorry Hiba. He should have discussed it with you in private, but instead chose to use you as an example. If he knows you’re a good student, he should not have put you in that uncomfortable position. Hope you’re feeling better now🌸

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Hb2003 in reply to FifLove

I am feeling better thankfully 😄

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FifLove in reply to Hb2003

I’m so glad to hear that😊

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Hb2003 in reply to FifLove

😄

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Hb2003 in reply to FifLove

Thank you 🙏

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Agora1

Dearest Hiba That was so wrong of him. You don't teach a lesson by humiliation.

I'm glad you reached out to us for comfort. I hope you have settled down some and

not allow this to ruin the rest of your day. Kick the thought to the curb and breathe

through a calming meditation. In my eyes, you are smarter than he could ever be :) xx

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Hb2003 in reply to Agora1

Thank you so much ❤️😄

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FearIsALiar

I know how frustrating that can be! My senior year of highschool I had told my teacher I am unable to go on the field trip due to how bad my anxiety was that day and she started yelling at me in front of the entire classroom. I cannot handle being yelled at or others being harsh towards me. I’m such a sensitive person! The tears just came out after she did that. I was humiliated and eventually left the classroom and stayed in the bathroom til that class was over.

Maybe you could send him an email explaining and also mentioning how you don’t like how he spoke to you!

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Gentlespirit

It's ok to cry let yourself be yourself. There were times i was discouraged from doing so or realized i could not yet thats when other coping mechanisms kicked in for me. Some healthy and some not. Its ok to feel and grow . Be humorous its one of our greatest gifts and strengths for dealing with situations and life. I wish you well. You are a wonderful beautiful lady and you have a good heart.

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Mrspjsmom

It's ok to cry. And sometimes we are all late. It's not ok to humiliate people. If this happens again as your teacher is speaking imagine his head blowing up slowly like a balloon. A bigger and bigger head on a tiny little neck. It sounds silly but it is one of my favorite coping mechanisms when I feel humiliated or can't avoid a toxic person.

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