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No empathy so I left

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My husband, who is not always kind, just disrespected me in front of my mother. I burned my hand making dinner and he was yelling at me to remove the ice pack, take Advil... he was screaming!!! She told him he has no empathy and got up and left. Then I left too. I need to go back to the house to be with our daughter. Advice please

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Just be calm and collected and talk about it later!

Good luck!

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Be calm... your daughter is your priority; ignore him, when he calms down then try talking.

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I’m aware you are correct. I need the will power to do it

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What do you mean notes photos and dates? What am I documenting? Also, what is legal aid?

That's a tough one. I'm sorry you have to go through that with my family. You feel stuck. It sounds like lack of love overall. I know that feeling.

Is it just lack of empathy from him at all. My husband likes to escape into his man cave and I feel lonely. I learned you can't change people.

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Re reflecting on your advice. Thank you for it. You’re kind

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