Why do i do that

[shewolf_]

Sometimes or often times I come off too aggressive. I feel mike it pushes people away. I’m sad because tonight was suppose to be a fun night out but it isn’t . I think that guys get intimated by my assertiveness or dark humor . It makes me want to give up on dating period . I feel a monster or something . I feel so shy to talk to guys when I first meet them but then when I get comfortable with them it’s like I can’t even be myself

[3crazydogs]

Don’t be so hard on yourself!! We are our own worse critics! Try and think of the good parts of the “date” even if they don’t call back.

[CheerSingDanceHealth]

I’m usually aggressive when I’m scared, and I feel like I have to defend myself. Do you think that’s what’s happening?