Embarrassed and In Love And Confused and Scared

[JoeFig999]

im Joe and i live in the bronx and honestly hate it here, i recently went through and embarrassing situation with a female friend who i have strong feelings for,We had an intimate moment and it was amazing but when we went to move further my body failed me if you get what i mean. i don't want her to think it was because of her it has never happened to me before and i think she is so beautiful.we were also drinking so i know that might have to do with my that part of my body might of failed me but im terrified of losing her. id even say im in love. we haven't talked about it and its really scaring and hurting me, she's had a really rough life like me i also don't want to add her stress. i sent her a message yesterday its a week removed from my embarrassing moment with her and all i want to do is know how she feels. i have so much going on in my life and idk what to do i haven't stopped thinking about this since last week when it occurred i lover her so much and im scared to lose her.

[thechae]

I actually had a similar moment when I first got into a relationship with a guy. I actually didn’t get wet! Everything felt right, I liked him, he liked me, but that just didn’t work! I was SUPER embarrassed too. But, I realized that this is super common and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed. I’m sure your partner will understand.

[JoeFig999 in reply to thechae]

she's sadly not my girlfriend she's a really close friend. it was a mutual in the moment feeling when we started being intimate. i love and care about her very much, i just not only feel embarrassed but hoping she's ok since we havnthad a conversation about anything since it happened =(

[0693]

Hey my name I’d Dana I had a boyfriend for along time an one night we were drinking an went to bed an the same thing happened to him at frist I thought it was me but he felt so bad it was the booze he called ask me to come back over later that week an made me dinner an prove to me it wasn’t me so do something special for her an Prove to her she wasn’t the problem when u c her let her no it was the