Parent Problem

[1BrightStar]

I’m here again. I feel like I’m bothering everybody by posting, but I don’t know who to turn to. I’m sorry if I’m annoying. I still live at my parents house (I’m 20), and I feel like they hate that I’m still here. Every time I say anything really, it turns into an argument, which sometimes turn into fights. And I’m tired. I don’t want to fight with my parents, but I feel like they’re trying to push me away? I don’t know. I hate living here, and the longer I stay the more uncomfortable I become. I don’t know what to do, though because I’m not financially able to move out. Health wise as well, I need support, but I’m no longer getting it and I feel really lost. I don’t know what to do, or if there’s anything I can do. I’m just tired.

[Rudolph26]

Hey, no need to feel your posts are bothering people. We all post what we are going through, and I see few that are pleasant. So, trust me. It’s definitely not a bother. If you want someone to chat with your more then welcome to shoot me a message I may not be a genius but I’m told I’m a good listener

[crowningglory19]

I'm sorry you are feeling this way! it is hard when you don't feel welcome or supported. Do you have another relative your could live with and split bills with? Maybe if you give even a small portion to your parents if you stay there, it will help both you and them feel like you aren't taking advantage and are doing part to help. Plus, work makes you feel better and like you are contributing in life, it helps a lot with focus and energy. Some things that help also are a good multi vitamin that has extra vitamin Bs to heal nerves, give energy and focus, and also have extra magnesium for calming mind body and spirit. Ginseng is great to get rid of sticky negative thoughts that loop too. Hope this advice helps you too! <3