Pregnant and Struggling to move

[Yara25]

divorced for two years and pregnant on a new relationship, but unhappy, because I feel I still love my ex and can’t move on.

[Jeff1943]

It's no longer all about you, it's about the baby who you have given life to. Ideally a child needs a mother and a father. Can you support this child on your own? Let's say No. Is your 'ex' willing to take responsibility for the child? Let's say No.

There was a reason you took up with the baby's father, remind yourself of that. There was a reason you divorced your 'ex', remind yourself of that too.

You have to move on, for the sake of your baby. Unless there's an option I've missed.

[Lynl in reply to Jeff1943]

Is the relationship your in ok? Is he happy about the baby? Does he love you? Will he support you and the baby? Does he love your other children if there are any? Is he a good honest hard working man? If the answer is yes , then it sounds like you might want to give this a chance, your hormones might just be messing with you . If the answer is no, then you have to ask yourself why you and your ex are not together and why you and your boyfriend are . Or maybe you it’s just that it’s all so new and scary but will turn out fine. Have you talked with a counselor or pastor etc...? Keep in touch❤️

[Lynl]

God Bless, keep in touch

[Lynl]

No matter how long your story is , is fine with me , would love to be an ear for you to vent to and hopefully I can help even a little .

[Lynl]

I’m so sorry , I just saw this post, and so sorry you have been through all that, it sounds like a heavy load in your mind. I think it is awesome how you turned it for good by helping others in need. I truly believe family , even if not by blood are those who are put in our lives and those we are close to and you seemed to have a lot of people who you have helped who I’m sure are grateful and that makes for family. My husband works in a place where there are 6 Halicaust “I spelled that wrong” survives and we got to know a few personally and told their stories and how they regained their lives from it all. However so many didn’t, and so horribly sad . Your family has been through so much, and thank you for sharing , it sounds like you have done a lot to make others happy any you really deserve to be happy too. Weigh out your ideas on what’s best for you in the long run . Keep in touch