Advice !!!

[gerrerd]

I would be very grateful if you would let me know if my posts are helping you. Just a simple like will do ! Ive been posting now for nearly 2 years every day ! reactions seem to be less and less, Am I doing any good or am I out of touch with what people want ? is time for me to move on ! Ray xx

[gerrerd]

the post came out a bit small ?

[Tikirob]

Hey I don’t want to make you feel bad but this is the first time I am seeing your post. I like the one here for sure and find it helpful.

[gerrerd]

I dont feel ignored ! just want to know if Im helping anyone, As for your problem, she has the problem not you ! so just let her be she will find some one who will play here games. Dont you play ! xx

[Sillysausage234]

Love you uncle ray don’t be going anywhere....keep the positive posts coming ..in amongst the doom and gloom we all have to wade through it’s good to see your messages of wisdom ...hope.positive thinking ...and I know you’re much appreciated around here if h.u hadn’t stopped us playing music ide play your favourite all we need is love 😊

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

Hey sausage!! Don't know where you have been but I surely missed you!!

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you mel I love you too and hope you have a pleasant weekend don’t know what is going on around here lately but if people don’t want to come on here to offer help or receive support maybe they should take time out ...as a toxic atmosphere is not what we want or need ....many of us here try to make this place a safe haven ....like uncle ray 🙂x

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

I agree. Don't know what happened. I can blow it off and not let it affect me but some take these things to heart and are more fragile than others. I hope everyone is okay. Glad to see you back.

[gerrerd in reply to Sillysausage234]

Thanks sausage !

[BrainFog-Ninja]

I enjoy your positive posts... I think it has a very important place on boards like this. It gives balance to the other posts about personal struggling, and advice seeking etc....(and of course needed in light of the back and forth negative energy / personality drama posts recently).

I’m sure many read them, and just don’t comment...I will try to be more aware of liking the posts I read, including yours. Thank you.

[gerrerd in reply to BrainFog-Ninja]

Thanks

[Hidden]

I personally love your posts gerrerd some members don't come on the site regularly anymore that might be why

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

Thanks petal xx

[Hidden]

I love your posts and read them all the time. I think with the holidays coming people are having down times lately. Less interactions are happening. It comes in waves. Thanks for helping us

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

Thanks xx

[sweetiepye]

I respond and I will more in future. I usually have a good think about the things you share . I appreciate you, don't go. Your kind of wisdom is never out of touch, my friend. Pam

[gerrerd in reply to sweetiepye]

Thanks xx

[Nathan53]

Hello Ray

I read most of your posts keep them coming if you can - I find them useful and though provoking so thanks for taking the time to post.

Best regards to you

[gerrerd in reply to Nathan53]

Thanks

[melbrown]

Hi Ray 🤗 I enjoy your post, they often bring a smile to my face. Lots of good reminders... please keep doing them.

[gerrerd in reply to melbrown]

Thanks

[Sprinkle1]

Hello Gerrerd, just found your email, and read all the great responses. Yes I like them, cannot read this one it is too small, but I read them all and they are great, you are doing a wonderful job of helping people here. I know I have replied to some of them, so keep them coming, year 3 coming up. Sending love & hugs....

Sprinkle 1.....

[gerrerd in reply to Sprinkle1]

xxx

[Agora1]

gerrerd, Your posts take time as well as devotion to HU. I never stop appreciating

all you do. Whether we've heard it before or it's a fresh new idea in dealing with

anxiety, it's important that we keep learning everyday. Thank you my friend. Your

posts can never get old. You are the "Wind Beneath our Wings" xx

[gerrerd in reply to Agora1]

Thanks xxx

[Jeff1943]

Gerard, your wisdom is badly needed here. Remember, don't judge a post by the number of Likes and Replied, for every one who does respond there are 50 who appreciate what they have read but don't show it.

[gerrerd in reply to Jeff1943]

Thanks jeff, Im in quite a few groups online, not health one,s and the reactions to post on them and on here is startling ! One of my posts got over 1000 reactions ! that got me thinking am I doing any good on here ! do they want to hear and learn ! or do most just want to talk about whats wrong, if they do that ! thats what they get ! Thanks again, Ray.