The fuel to the madness

[lakoritalv]

My daughter decided to get married without including me she's my first daughter that's getting married she's 19 and I don't know what to do I can't stop crying for somebody that suffers through mental illness on a daily basis when someone adds fuel like this is to me it makes it so difficult to get through the day and even more difficult for anybody to understand

[Mary-intussuception]

I am so sorry this is happening to you.

This is really bad.

When's the Wedding going to be? Is there a date yet?

There's still time isn't there? To think and pray this through?

Maybe you could think of someone who could speak to her on your behalf before the day comes?

Please give yourself some time and space to recover from this hurtful shock - then pray for & think of a way forward to open up communication with her in a calm and "no blame " manner.

I do sincerely hope that if she goes through with her plans to wed then you will be there, with her.

You are Precious & valued (always remember this ). Life can be so difficult at times.

God Bless x

♡

[Dolphin14]

That is painful. Why do you think she chose this route? Has your relationship been strained?

I have the same questions as Mary. When is the wedding etc. is there time for her to change her mind and invite you when she thinks this through?

[Hidden]

This is so sad...I really feel for you.Is there any chance you can talk to your daughter? My one son married not once but twice and we weren't invited so I understand how you feel, hurts big time. May you find the peace you need at this difficult time. I'm here for you.

Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy and hugs for you!

[lakoritalv]

My kids have always been used to me taking care and handling everything on my own and now that I'm not able to because of anxiety and depression has overtaken me they see me as somebody week and not trustworthy so that strained the relationship she finally invited me though but I still feel wrong I'm not involved in anything I don't even know what she's wearing I just feel like I'm being robbed and mind you this all going to be done at the in-laws house

[lakoritalv]

The wedding is going to be September 7th so basically in a month