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New here, how do you know if you need meds?

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Hi,

My husband sent me a link to the website hoping that it would help me. I’ve been struggling with what I guess is depression. The doctor called it major depressive disorder and prescribed me Wellbutrin. I’m not sure if I need it or not? How do you know where to draw the line? I’m down and have been for a long time. Can’t concentrate at work, my memory is terrible. Things that should make me happy don’t and I’m so tired and irritable all of the time. On the other hand, I love my kids and my husband with everything I have. I get out of bed because of them every day. I want to be around them as much as I can. I’m pretty functional, I still get to work every day and I know I’m a great mom. I just don’t take care of myself. I don’t care about me. I’m gaining weight and eating terrible and I have a really low sense of self worth. I babbled but I’m really lost right now..

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I think that taking medication is a great idea. There could be a hormonal imbalance that only medication can tackle. Seeing a therapist can help a ton, too. They can provide you with great advice, and it is a judge-free zone. Take care of yourself first before taking care of others. <3 Your family sounds awesome! I'm sure that they need you.

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I meant chemical imbalance, oops

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Thank you

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To medicate or not to medicate... That is the question! I'm strongly against drugs that alter my mind however sometimes there isn't a good or effective alternative. In your case, since you're hesitant, I would go see a therapist and ask specifically if they believe you can gain back your list for life without the medication. If they come to the same conclusion than I'd follow their advice.

It doesn't necessarily have to be a lifelong or long term thing. You may only need it for a short time until your therapy or lifestyle changes or hormones or whatever kicks in.

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Thank you, that’s really helpful. I’ve requested an appointment with a new therapist (mine is out of state so I’d like to see someone in person rather than over the phone) and with a psychiatrist. We’ll see if they agree and go from there.

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