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I have to put my dog down today and I’m having a really hard time. I know it’s best for her, but it doesn’t make it any easier. She is my best friend.

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Oh my..I am so sorry for this. So sad. We had to put my son's dog down 2 years ago so I know how you're feeling, he was 14 & I used to babysit him..he now lays in my yard. You'll be in my heart today. Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you!

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dons430

Tough process. I went through this pain and sorrow in Jan 2018. Spend as much time as you are able with your friend. Let him/her know how much love he/she brought into your life. Be vulnerable! I am in my 60’s...I can’t recall ever crying as hard as I did when he took his last breath. I laid with him until the end. The vet assistant was kind enough to allow me all the time I needed. I asked to have the ashes after his body was cremated, I recall walking out into the waiting room after his passing, eyes swollen. The reception I got from the folks waiting with their pets was unexpected! They all sensed my pain and offered me condolences through hugs and tears. Have no shame in how you feel about your best friend. He/she gave you a great gift, the ability to know and understand unconditional love! May God’s peace be with you my “dog loving” friend! I have since gotten a new friend..all is well. Take your time today, the sting will lessen with the gift of time, but the love you feel will not. Peace be with you on your journey

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kglassman in reply to dons430

I don’t think I could get another dog. I can’t go through this pain again

My heart is breaking for you. I know what you're going through.

I had to go through this with my ol' friend Dominic. But I had to do what was best for him.

Remember that you gave your dog the best life ever. Filled with love and happiness. Not all dogs are so lucky.

And grieve, but don't regret. Your friend wouldn't want that.

I saw you say you couldn't go through this again, and I understand. But know that you gave one dog a beautiful life. Without you, he might not have been so lucky.

Your friend would want you to do it again.

There will always be a dog in my life...in my home. And I will love each and every one.

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Iloveart7

(((Hugs)))

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Xena13

This is the worst feeling... she is your baby. You will grieve for her.... and you need to. You will always have her with you in your heart and you will heal. Bless you and your baby. She will be free of sickness and pain.

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melbrown

I'm so sorry kglassman... this is never an easy decision even when we know it's the very best thing to do. She knows you love her very much.... please take the time to grieve, as much as you need, don't let anyone rush it. Take care of yourself, she would want you to. Reach out for support. Sending warm hugs.💜

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kenster1

hey sad news in hearing that poor soul my dog is also my best friend.doubt I would be here without her.thinking of you take care.

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kglassman

She’s officially gone and all I want it to be gone with her

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kenster1 in reply to kglassman

so sorry to hear that I really am.think of all the happy years you spent together I bet she gave you years of fun.i know your hurting really bad I would be as well.here for you anytime.

Im so sorry. I definitely know the pain.

Sending much love to you 🖤

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B4andafter

You are grieving so take the time to grieve the loss of your dog. I know how it feels to lose your best friend. You might check out your local humane society and find a pet loss support group that is led by a grief counsellor. Typically, there is no cost There is also a website called petloss.com and it is another online support group made up of people who have gone through the exact same experience.

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pink83737

I know how you feel..I lost my dog of 15 years on her birthday. It’s definitely not easy but remember time will heal. You will see her again and she will give you signs that she is safe and okay ❤️ like today I was in the store looking at cards and I look over to the card next to me and it said “I miss you” with the same exact breed of dog on it.. I knew that was her giving me a sign that she is okay. Hugs to you, hang in there ❤️

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kglassman

My aunt invited me over for New Year’s Eve tomorrow to try to distract me from my grief. However, she has 2 dogs. I don’t know if I will react badly and start crying or not. Does anyone have any experience with this situation of being around other dogs after the loss of your own ?

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