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[IloveMary]

I am having a very bad night I am sitting here with my 5 month old baby boy I love him very much but I can't stop thinking about hurting myself ..wellI hope youall have a great night..

[axxxx]

Please seek human contact immediately. Whenever I have a panic attack the first thing that I do is to go out as soon as I can. Being surrounded by others will help you. Please go out for a walk, call your family or a friend. Ask them to go to your house. You should not be driving like that. If you feel that you are extremely bad call 911 please. Good luck, God bless you 🙏

[IloveMary in reply to axxxx]

god bless you 2

[babygirl1952]

Hey how are you I sent you a reply on other post are you ok

[IloveMary in reply to babygirl1952]

yes thank you hope you are doing good your self

[Lossisgain]

Don’t do it! Don’t listen to the lies that go through your head. Your baby needs you. 🙏🏼

[IloveMary in reply to Lossisgain]

yes I see that now I didn't see it that way..hope you are doing good..

[Lossisgain in reply to IloveMary]

I’ve had a terrible day but I’m happy that you decided not to do it. Are you doing better, I’m struggling with anxiety, depression, adult separation anxiety disorder from my partner. He is not really taking me seriously on that but it scares me. I’ve never experienced it before.

[IloveMary in reply to Lossisgain]

I am sorry to hear that your partner is not taking you seriously..

[Sillysausage234]

Hi Mary do you want to talk about anything

[IloveMary in reply to Sillysausage234]

thank you for asking but I am better now I saw the light that my baby needs me and I need my baby..

[Sillysausage234 in reply to IloveMary]

Best wishes,🕊

[IloveMary in reply to Sillysausage234]

thank you and you take care

[Jeff1943]

Your baby comes first, right? Your baby won't benefit from you self harming. It could lead to infection that would make it difficult to care for baby. And baby's notice things even when very, very young.

Self harming is disrespecting yourself. You have every reason to show yourself the greatest respect. Accept the feeling, we are allowed to have strange feelings but don't oblige the feeling by doing anything. Everything will work out well for you.

[IloveMary in reply to Jeff1943]

Thank you I was not thinking feeling better..I you are doing good..

[IChoose]

Do you have post partum depression? If so, you can seek counseling to help you through it. It's perfectly normal in view of the hormonal changes and changes to your life that your new baby brings. When you overcome the postpartum you will be able to enjoy your new baby and see what an amazing mom you are!

[IChoose in reply to IChoose]

Speaking of which, I wonder if there is a postpartum group on health unlocked. If not, maybe there should be, with some dedicated administrators with a sensitivity to this matter like in PTSD.

[IloveMary in reply to IChoose]

that would be nice if they did

[IloveMary in reply to IChoose]

I was told that give it some time you will see how much fun you will have every day you are with your baby

[IChoose in reply to IloveMary]

If a qualified psychologist told you this, ok, but in view of how you're feeling now, in the moment, I would get a second opinion. If not, I would sit down as soon as possible with one since real depression doesn't cure itself and can get even worse.