I have anxiety and depression, and so does my 20 something son. He gives me more anxiety then anything else in my life. He has social anxiety and just lost 2 of his best friends because of his actions. They don't understand his anxiety. It is killing him and now he is more depressed and starting to use some drugs to suppress him feelings. This isn't the first time this has happened. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle/deal with his sorrow/hurt so I don't sound condescending or hurtful? I hate what this is doing to him and just want to help him.