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Anyone else feel like you’re always everyone’s second choice?

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Does anyone else feel like you’re everyone’s second choice? I feel like I’m the only one who can’t find a significant other. It’s been almost 7 years since I’ve Been in a relationship and I’m only 25. Is something wrong with me?

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Naynay2

Nothing is wrong with you you just haven't found the right person and when you do you'll think about all the times you were sad and realize you were just waiting for the right one. I promise it will happen for you

in reply to Naynay2

It’s hard to even meet people since I work 50-65 hrs a week. I’ve lived in cinci for a year and a half almost and only know the people I’ve worked with.

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Reiyn

All the time. 2nd it last choice in workplace and relationships. You are not alone.

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Naynay2

Do they only have men at your job I met my husband at work.

in reply to Naynay2

I work in freight where I supervise union employees. Yes it’s all men lol. We have two women who work in the office but besides that it’s about 40+ men that work with me.

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fauxartist

Even in a relationship you can be second choice my friend.... never get in a relationship with someone who already has kids....your always second choice.

in reply to fauxartist

It’d Just be nice to have someone that remotely cares. Having kids is understandable, but when my friends are all in relationships and girls still hit on them before me it’s like I’ve lost all hope on dating.

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Jimdubu

Been there done that. I was socially awkward , you might say a nerd. 6"3 170 lbs' Pigeon toed, wondering left eye slightly bent forward because of scoliosis and I was born with my hips turned in instead of out so my pants don't like to stay up ( I used to joke I was a walking birth defect ) needless to say I didn't date hardly at all. But one day I asked a girl out that was a friend of a girl that I knew, She said yes, we continued dating and last month we celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary. The girl that is meant for you is out there, you just haven't met her yet. Here are some resources I found you might like list.ly/list/1CNN-finding-m...

Prayer's God directs you to your Mrs Right.

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