What the hell do I do?

[MadyH]

My boyfriend is in the Air Force he is lovley and I love him but he lives in California which is super hard because i am in Nebraska. He is offering to transfer down here so that can go to my dream school and pursue my dream career. The catch is he has to go to Korea for a year before he can transfer here. He plans to propose sometime I dont know when but should I let him transfer or should I make him stay where he is so that I dont feel guilty? Ladies and gentlemen please give me your opinions!!!

[Hidden]

Let him decide. It is his decision to make. If it is important to him to be near you why would you feel guilty? You aren’t twisting his arm are you?

[MadyH in reply to Hidden]

I am not in fact I am hoping he doesnt do it to be honest. I feel guilty because I feel I do not deserve to be treated this good. I feel I am unworthy to be loved. I dont feel I could ever be loved or treated right because I hate myself and everything about me.

[Hidden in reply to MadyH]

Maybe you need to address why you feel this way about yourself? Obviously this guy thinks you are worthy. My point being what more proof do you need that you are worthy? If he didn’t feel you weren’t he wouldn’t have made the offer. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

[MadyH in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. i got back on my medicine to see if that will help. I am really trying.

[Hidden in reply to MadyH]

Hope you are feeling better.