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Sick and tired

APVILL
APVILL

I’m sooooo sick and tired of people walking out of my life just like that.

I don’t get what’s wrong with me, one second we’re best friends and the next they don’t even talk to me, and they act like they don’t even know me.

I just want a friend who can stay and be there for me.

I really care about people when the don’t give a shit about me

What is wrong with me ????

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Nothing is wrong with you. The longer you live the more you find out just how crazy the general public is. You just haven’t found friends that are mature yet.

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I find myself going through the same . No matter how much I give up to make sure my friends are good , no matter how real I keep it with females , in the end they turn their backs on me when I needed them the most. A lesson I learned/ am learning, have your own back first and don’t count on anyone. It’s the only way I can think to protect my mental health.

sorry APVILL that your going through this..but I will say...at one point in my life when I was younger....people came and went...they were just acquaintances....very few, usually one or two were closer friends. But I was not making very good choices, and also sharing too much. People in social situations don't want to hear all our stuff...they just want to have a good time. You have to choose the time and place and right person to share more intimate things about yourself. And also make friends with people that have your same interests. Don't expect too much from people you don't know very well....and it takes time to develop closer friendships...don't blame yourself....just make better choices...and go with the flow....

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