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I just wanted someone to be there.

EmbraceYourself
EmbraceYourself
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Ever since my ex, who was my Best friend passed away April 5th, I've fallen into a deep depression. The first couple of days they're were people there for me, but now almost a month later, everyone is gone. Im still forcing my self to get out of bed, to eat, and not to cry, but it's really hard. I wish my he was still here. Everyday, is harder and harder without him. I honestly, just want someone to just hug me and tell me, "It's okay, I'm here for you."

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tamka38

Sore to hear that everything will be alright hug to u

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tamka38
tamka38
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If u don’t mind me asking what happen to him

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EmbraceYourself

Accidental Overdose

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tamka38

Sorry again am here for u if u ever need someone to talk too

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fauxartist

I'm so very sorry for your loss....I can't imagine the pain your going through, nobody really can. But I can say your not alone here....and it's going to take a very long time to go through all your emotions around your loss. It's really so raw emotionally right now...cry all you want, there is no set guide book on this...you just have to do what your able to do and leave yourself alone...it's hard when friends are not around as much....but you can reach out to the ones you know are there for you...many think after a loss that the person wants to be left alone...

we are here for you....you always have a safe place to share your feelings and thought..

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hb_kenzie

You are definitely not alone here. It is going to take you a long time to heal but you will heal. We are here for you and please let me know if you ever need to talk.

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Pat140609

Hi 🌹so sorry to hear what you goin thru, you will be ok, you will get a inner strength and will get thru this dark time, take care x

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brightbronzexo

I'm so sorry for your loss 💜. I'm sure he is looking over u and wanting u to be happy. U have to gather the strength and courage to move on, but don't rush it. Take the time u need to heal and recover, but don't stay in that place for too long. We are always here if u need to speak to someone 💜

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gogogirl

Give yourself a big hug, and grieve as long as you need.

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YoungSimba

Hi embraceyourself

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know it is not easy losing someone you love. It’s going to be a hard journey but you are doing good so far. Getting yourself out of bed, even by force, is great. Cry as much as you need to. And if you have any family of yours or you bf’s, Reach out, I’m sure you all can support each other in this time. It’s great that you came on here to get support. WE are here for you! *Prayers* ❤️

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Karenssister

In the last 3 years I lost my childhood best friend. No one like her, thru marriages, children, divorce. She was my rock. I then lost my Dad whom had been a best friend too, to me.

I am still down at times. It’s taken me some time. But the one thing that resonates, would they want me so unhappy? Sad? Allowing their loss to cause me such grief? No. They both loved me very much.

So for them and because of them. I get up, keep them close in my heart and go forward.

Biggest hug to you.

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NWGal

Virtual hug to you. I remember that time so well (after my 38 year old son died unexpectedly of a heart attack). You are not alone and we are here for you.

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Agora1
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NWGal, My deepest sympathy to you on the passing of your son. xx

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NWGal
NWGal
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It has been over two years and it still doesn't feel "real". Thank you friend.

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Agora1
Agora1
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I can't imagine your pain. Keeping you close in my thoughts. xx

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s_l_f

So sad for your sadness which is totally understandable. Take as much time as you need. Gradually the pain will lessen and hopefully the sun will start shining. 😊

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