Broken heart

[Marielle1]

It’s been two months now since he left just got up one morning took his toothbrush and wrote me a dear Jane letter it’s the way he did it that hurt so much . At this point I just want to feel better pray to God he mend my heart.

[Hidden]

He will answer you & build you up! I'm here for you. Breakups can so very difficult. Bit of a shmuck the way he did it, maybe you're better off without him. You never know who's around the corner! I'm here for you!

Love & warm hugs for you! XXX

[Marielle1 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your kind words I feel better already I just have my moment I’m grateful I have someone like you and your support Xo

[Hidden in reply to Marielle1]

Oh I'll always be here for you, we all need someone! I have no friends to visit , my hubby is a truck driver, so i'm alone all week!

Love & Hugs! XXX

[Marielle1 in reply to Hidden]

You’re a good person i’m here for you too xoxo

[Hidden in reply to Marielle1]

You're fantastic!!!!!!!! Love & hugs!!! XXX

[gerg]

The way that he ended it is only as important as the story that you tell yourself. I could take a perspective on that letter that makes it caring and compassionate. If you are explaining your emotions with the story of the letter you may feel the negative emotions for the rest of your life. I ask you to dig deep into your feelings and find the true source. You may be taking some blame for the break up that is causing the pain that you think comes from the letter. If you can find the true issues you can address them and resolve them correctly.

I hope you find contentment soon.

[Marielle1 in reply to gerg]

🙏 thank you

[softwaremom00]

I think the way he ended it was not very kind. Life is a long road, you definitely want to end up with a kind partner. He did you a favor. There is a saying, "Better to be alone than wishing you were" Sometimes it is hard to believe.. Time to find peace within yourself. Learn to meditate, eat healthy and focus on yourself. Think of all the time that a relationship takes and now you can spend it on yourself.

I remember how devastated I used to get after breakups.. I would always lose at least 5 pounds and more depending on how hurt I was.

It used to help me to pray for the guy who hurt me.. to get everything that would make him happy. This was hard to do but a friend taught me this technique. She said to fake it at first. I am not sure why it works but it did help me forget about the guy who hurt me and help me get over the hurt. I would do it every night. It is worth a try.

Tons of hugs and prayers for you.

[Marielle1 in reply to softwaremom00]

It’s worth a try I will start praying for him tonight thank you for your kind words

Xoxo

[kenster1]

hope your ok marrielle.break ups are hard but lets hope you have good friends around you and family.im sure you will bounce back.

[Marielle1 in reply to kenster1]

I’m Really not OK I have therapy giving it a chance thank you for your concern

[bridder01]

You'll get through this. And you've got all of us backing you up!

There's a time-honored saying: Don't get mad, get even. Show him what he's missing by living the best life you possibly can and being as happy as you can! Sometimes, happiness can be the best revenge of all!

A friend if you need one,

Brian

[Marielle1 in reply to bridder01]

Thanks for good advice I’ll keep it in mind. Thanks

[bridder01 in reply to Marielle1]

Anytime ☺