I believe that I very well may be suffering from borderline personality disorder. I read up a lot on it and it sounds like me. Years ago I went to a psychiatrist with my mom and against my wishes she spoke to the doctor and that's what he diagnosed me with. I did not accept it because it was done behind my back. Now that I am older and see the life that is in ruins it seems very plausible... Many relationships are affected or ruined and I suffer greatly. Can anyone offer any advice or help?