my appointment in the morning

[kw41716]

i have a appointment in the morning for the lump in/on my left breast area . i’m super scared to have something in there and i would be so devastated if it was something serious ! ☹️

[Loveydovey0519 Ambassador]

Think of it this way, IF it is something of importance. At least you're getting it looked into sooner rather than later. I know how it is going to the doctor and freaking out before you even get there. Story of my life the past year! Just try not to think the absolute worse before you have all the evidence.

[kw41716 in reply to Loveydovey0519]

my fiancé is like freaking out and is like what if it’s a tumor or something and he’s scaring me

[Loveydovey0519 Ambassador in reply to kw41716]

Him saying that definitely doesn’t help the matter at all. But if it is you will find a way to cope and get better. We can’t control our life control what happens to us 100% of the time. I just went through 9-10 months of absolute hell and health anxiety. I’ve been diagnosed since 07/08. I made it through and so will you!

[kw41716 in reply to Loveydovey0519]

i’ve been through anxiety myself along with and eating disorder , depression , and suicidal attempts . so him saying scary things doesn’t help but he’s got it off him mind right now thankfully !

[Florida1959 in reply to kw41716]

He isn’t helping at all. This is your issue, not his x

[Agora1]

kw41716, I'm glad you are seeing your doctor tomorrow morning. When you wrote yesterday you had not mentioned a lump. You are doing the right thing in getting it checked out. I wish you good luck Pleae let us know what the doctor says. You can do this. Stay Positive and Breathe..x

[kw41716 in reply to Agora1]

i’m very anxious , i wanna scream and cry 😞 i was told it has to be something or it wouldn’t be there which scares me more

[Florida1959]

Keep positive, sending you good vibes, don’t worry about it till it happens, I have been through same, it turned out to be a cyst. Thinking about you. X

[Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

It may have to be something but it doesn’t have to be a bad something. It could be something very simple! You must communicate your feeling to your fiancé and ask that he give you support and not help in adding to your stress. It does however show that he does truly care about you! Men are taught to fix things if they are broke. Often times if it is something that is not able to be fixed they don’t know how to handle that. He’s scared. It is not good at all that he is adding to your anxiety though. It is very important to learn better ways of communication between you before marriage. Try not to allow this to become a pattern. He is obviously very sensitive to your wellness. At least he cares. Just teach him how he can help you better in these situations. Stay positive. It is being addressed. That’s the first step. Then you and your doctor can figure out a plan of care. It may be so simple you can laugh at it. Look at it and laugh and set your mind that you are going to kill it! Try to take the power away from it. Best of luck! Give us an update on how it goes when able. Sending prayers and good vibes!

[kw41716 in reply to Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

i’m hoping for something simple , we communicate very well but when it comes to my health he gets just as scared as i do , he would be devastated if something was to happen

[Windy101]

Kw, I will be thinking of you. Please let us know. I'd be scared, too. Best of luck to you. We're here for you no matter what happens!

[kw41716 in reply to Windy101]

thank you 💕

[ashes86]

I experienced something of that sort. I was working out faithfully and discovered a lump in my breast. Went to my dr and they did an ultrasound. Turns out it was benign and dissolved on its own. Hope this helps ease your mind😊

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Good wishes to you for the appointment tomorrow ..

Hope it all goes ok.

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