Stressed Hot and Fed up
I seriously don't get how I could work all day come home to people being there all day but I'm the one that has to be told to do shit when my brother was home all damn day smfh to exhausted to argue I left but I just wanna cry
So, while not happy, you seemed to handle the situation. You didn't clean up the mess and left. Did anyone clean up the mess or are you still gone from home and don't know? Assume it was your parents who told you to do the cleaning. And you feel it's not fair for other people to be at home but you have to do the cleaning. Need a little more info? Is it your place or your parents? Was your brother living there or visiting?
Work on a plan to get out of your situation. Either that or just stop looking at what a loser he is and do what you have to do until you are out of the situation. Do whatever you can to stop focusing on what he is not doing and find something that you enjoy and invest in that. I find that if I am looking at what other people are NOT doing, I end up being miserable. It doesn't solve anything it just keeps you upset. Do you have a life plan or any goals?
Yeah I have all that and a kid to raise etc... it was just a long crappy day and just wanted to get home and rest it didn't happen. I always do what I need to do but since he was home all damn day figured he do something but no I do everything. I'm the reliable one smh I'll be fine
I feel you.
What does smfh stand for?
Don't clean up after lazy people, they'll keep expecting it
Smfh is the abbreviation of a bad word I can't use on my post some people don't like bad language 😑
However, acronyms are fine as long as they are not abusive!
Understandable I'm not one for using bad words all the time I'll be careful so no one is offended 🤗
Don't clean up after the lazy bugger!
You deserve your rest so take it.
I wish it was that simple it's more like if I don't do it it'll never get done or I'll never hear the end of it. There's times I'm just too exhausted to argue about it
It's your choice, but people will keep using you if you keep giving in.
Oh trust me it was worse before I stand my ground most times but it's when I feeling my lowest that I just can't deal sometimes
It has gotten better now?
Not this week every day has been something different but I'm hoping weekend will be different
You hope to get a break then?
I'll never have a real break I have a 4 year old 😋 but I break from the unnecessary drama yes
Well you need a break from the adult kids, not the real one 😁
Hopefully I will 😁
Fingers crossed 😂
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