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Chicago?
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Sure, I think you all should. 
It's pretty lonely here sometimes.
No. Chicago isn't so bad. But if it were up to me...I'd be in New York.
You should try Chicago for a while. Less expensive than NY 😏
jewlz17 in reply to
As tempting as that is it'll be a while before I can up and go but maybe a vacation some day 🤔
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Exactly what I meant.
I like to pressure good people.
jewlz17 in reply to
Lol I bet you do but you have a better chance of moving here then me leaving on a vacation
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Crap! I meant to say I don't like pressuring good people. But I really don't have any way of getting to NY. 😔
jewlz17 in reply to
lol don't worry I know what you meant. I'm sure if you could move back you will eventually.
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Meh, perhaps. I'd need a good reason to do so.
jewlz17 in reply to
If you envy me for living here then you must really love the idea moving back what better reason do you need just do something for you 😜😁
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A plan....
Where money is a necessity.
jewlz17 in reply to
lol I didn't mean right away more like save up build a plan and see what happens nothing wrong with having goals
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True....but my life has been ruined for some time. I'm trying to build myself back up and it's taking me a really long time. I've lost everything to my name thanks to my ex wife and my last 2 previous relationships.
jewlz17 in reply to
You can't lose something unless you give it up. You can rebuild your life make your own choices that's the best part of being an adult no one can tell you not to do something you just have to focus and keep going everything you do counts for something
I gave up being a Chicago cop for my boys and my last relationship. She grew insecure and accused me constantly cheating. Thanks to her last 2 previous failed marriages she was already damaged, she was just really good at hiding it. Since my job as a detective was to read people, I was able to catch but too late.
jewlz17 in reply to
Just giving up on one thing doesn't mean you give up on life find things that make you happy .your kids will grow up looking up to you realizing that your never gave up that life knocked you down but you never stayed down you kept going.
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They've (my boys) noticed. And their mothers have noticed that too, they envied that about me and started hating me for it. They would say that they hate me for not sharing my endurance and my strength. And I tell them "how can I, when all they want to do is to take the wheel and drive us into a circle or a brick wall."
The ex wife cheated and the mother of my 2nd born was a narcissistically blind and barely took me seriously. Neither one of them did. Maybe in the beginning but started to fade. Like they were acting and dropped the character.
jewlz17 in reply to
Then keep going don't let them stop you and don't stop yourself from believing you can get what you want. There will always be people that envy you but that not on you that's on them.
Means a lot to me for you to say that.
jewlz17 in reply to
Well I meant every word. I know things aren't easy I feel the same at times it's overwhelming but i don't think your a quitter and deep down you know this too
Can't help it. You cured me from being in denial. Lol
jewlz17 in reply to
Your delusional not in denial lol
Or you're just too damn good at knocking down walls and reading people. Lol
jewlz17 in reply to
I've been told a time or two I good at reading people.🤔
Hi, I'm in the Chicago burbs but go to the city often... I go back and forth with my anxiety but agree it can be lonely... be happy to chat more... let me know. M
I’m not far from Chicago- talk to me
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