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Moved, now looking for job.

Bekay
Bekay

On the first of August, I got a knock on my door, when I opened it there was the ,sheriff, Hampden county, he was a nice guy but what he said was quite a shock to me, I'm finally coming out of it, but he handed me an eviction notice that gave me fourtyeight hours to move my stuff.l guess I have most of it except the big things like furniture some lamps, oh well,just material stuff,but the past ten day my memory is not good ,lot of sweat and hard work up and down stairs to second floor apartment, not much nutrition, thought I would die,but I made it now I can maybe get some treatment, or councilling,something I am just not happy.life on life's terms is sometimes almost impossible, but things seem to work out, not exactly how I want but they work out.

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Loveydovey0519
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Welcome to the forums! Sorry to hear about your unfortunate past few days, try to keep you head up and moving forward!

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Loveydovey0519

Thanks

Hidden
Hidden

Sounds like you have had a nightmare, I hope things improve for you.

You can chat on here when you need or want too.

Even if you just need a wee break from it all for five minutes.

Good luck!

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Hidden

Thanks, i have a meeting in a little while, but I'll be back around ten,it has been quite a time. One thing I have learned from talking here on this sight is to not worry because in the end things have a way of working, so worrying is time and energy wasted.

Hidden
Hidden in reply to Bekay

Yes worrying is time and energy wasted, but you seem to be very positive so you are on the right tracks. ☺

I like your positive outlook at the end of your post. Yes everything works out in the end one way or another. And like you said, maybe not to our liking. You are going through a lot of stress. And I'm hoping better days are ahead for you. those of us with anxiety and depression find going Day to day difficult and it's so hard to find happiness. But hang in there.

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Shutterbug65

Thank you.

Bekay.

I am sorry you are going through a nightmare! I pray that things get better for you!

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Cbutler34

Thanks,

Bekay

I don't know what social services are available where you live, but here you can get help with food, clothes, electrical bills, medical appointments, etc. I urge you to take advantage of whatever is available to you so that life is a little easier. Whatever you do, don't give up and keep trying to think positive. You sound like you've had a very bad shock but you dealt with it and must be a strong person to do that.

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Windy101

Thank you I guess, I just got some mail ,another piece of news I've got till the end of the month then car insurance will be canceled life's terms ,let go and hope unemployment starts so I can transport myself to my councillors and meetings. Not in a good mood.

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Windy101

Thanks.

Bekay,

I'm sure that in the end everything will be o.k.

It always has a way of working.

Sounds like everything is raining down at once, but keep taking deep breaths and just deal with one thing at a time. All you can do is your best. Sometimes places will work with you if you make small payments regularly. Just keep telling yourself that no matter what happens, you will handle it. And you will. Sometimes I've told myself, "This is the part right before everything is working out" or "I'm one day closer to when all these problems are over." Sending good vibes and prayers your way!

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Windy101

Oh ya, here's one that gets said a lot ,"This to shall pass".

And it's true, with a few exceptions most things do pass.

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Windy101

Thanks windy101,I like that name ,it reminds me of a good song.

Hidden
Hidden in reply to Bekay

Hope things turn around for you, sending good vibes your way. Im here if you ever need someone to talk to. Im in the same bind so I understand. Takecare hun - VS

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Hidden

Thanks, SoTexas84,

What's vs mean

Hidden
Hidden in reply to Bekay

My initial hun, I'm Victoria btw

Bekay
Bekay in reply to Hidden

Oh, thanks,

I'm Bill.

SoTexas84,things are looking up I have a roof ,unemployment, has kicked in ,so I have money and a place to stay ,lost some stuff but a lot of things the movers put in storage ,they said I have a month to get them ,my eviction notice says I have six months, so if I get there after one month and my stuff is gone I'll have a law suit,because it's in writing that I have more time.

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