Having a hard day

My boyfriend is constantly pushing me away for his job lately, and idk what to do. I feel alone, sad, unwanted. I haven't seen him in about a week, and he just doesn't seem to be himself lately. Just seems closed off and distant. His mom passed away about 8 months ago and her birthday is coming up on April 1st. I feel like maybe that's a big part of it. He struggles with ptsd and this is the worst I've ever seen him, as far as closing himself off to me and everyone else. I just hate feeling this way and wish I could see him more..I've tried expressing how I feel and he understands, misses me too, but why can't he just take 1 day that he's supposed to have off, and tell his boss NO for once. Ugh

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  • Hello SammiexRain21 ,I'm sorry you feeling down. Today is my first day using this chat. The dead of a loved one is very hard to deal with especially of a mother. Your husband needs your support but I do understand exactly how you feel. Recently I moved to a different state to be closer to my fiancé because of his job. I was tired of been alone and only see him once a week. But lately he stays in the office longer seems distant all the time and when I try to talk to him he gets very defensive. This makes me feel very lonely and unwanted too.

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