I recently posted this on Yahoo answers but was met with answers such as "you are trolling" and "why would you encourage your Girlfriend's Bulimia?". Allow me to start out by saying I am not trolling in any way, and I do not wish anyone to suffer from Bulimia.
I have been with my now fiancé for nearly 3 years, and we plan to get married next year. I have known about her Bulimia for about 2 years now, and although I want her to get better, I understand that this will be a long fight both for her and myself.
Recently it has become routine for her to throw up in the kitchen sink instead of the toilet. Now I am not sure why she chose the sink, but I think it may be because I found out about her bulimia because she forgot to flush the toilet. Now she gets mad if I try to do the dishes because I might find out what she does. The truth is, I've know for a while now, in fact I have to frequently scoop out vomit to prevent clogging. My question is, would it be a bad idea to ask her to not throw up in the kitchen sink? I know this is selfish, but it has become quite stressful for me to tidy up sick from the sink everyday...
I don't want to hurt my girlfriend's feelings, but I feel that I am bottling up everything inside, and I don't want to sound confrontational.
Has anyone experienced something similar? What would be my best method to approach this?
I do plan on asking her to see a doctor soon.