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I was very humbled to win a Bold for Blue award for my PCa awareness activity. I also met the spouses of men taken by d*mn PCa. We chatted and hugged

A lovely time in DC

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And I was tagged in this by Carolyn whose hubby is on my back bib

And there are HU members on there also😭

Back bib honoring men lost to PCa
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PSA still climbing, CT setup sim nextFriday, prep for 28 IMRT sessions

PSA climbing
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My office manager who ran the 5k is in the pic with me

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Good for you Doc, you are so cool!!!

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Awww, Mahalo nui Sis

Just Spreading Aloha

youtu.be/iY91ClURQJQ

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PSAed in reply to dockam

Congrats on the award, well deserved.

Re: PSA rise, you are in the best mental and physical condition and those numbers should fall. We look forward to getting that good news. Best wishes.

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dockam in reply to PSAed

Mahalo nui loa, Yes, I'm all in for these 28 IMRT sessions and I know that the #s will drop and I'll be given more time

youtu.be/M8YtBK7V8ck

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Zengal79 in reply to dockam

Sending you all the goodness and positive vibes that these sessions kick that can WAY down the curb before you have kick it again with something else. Keep doing what you do doc!

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dockam in reply to Zengal79

Mahalo Sis, the IMRTs will get what the chemos didn't. Still options afterwards eg Lu-177. Still a Lotta Fight in this scrawny *ss dog! 😊 and I gotta get out and do a 5k with you πŸ’™Me ke Aloha Pumehana

Randy

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treedown in reply to dockam

I bet the radiation knocks it back down. You da man DoctR!

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dockam in reply to treedown

Mahalo Bruddah, I'm optimistic, LoL, like that's a news flashπŸ˜‚

Fight on

Randy

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maley2711 in reply to dockam

Randi -

Looks like you are with Kaiser. Did they offer you CBCT with fiducials for daily corrective imaging, CBCT alone, or something else? Any mention of SBRT as an option? THANKS!

also, SPACEOAR???

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doc1947g in reply to maley2711

Any mention of VMAT-RT. it is milder than SBRT but stronger than IMRT.

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maley2711 in reply to doc1947g

Not sure about that. From what I understand???, IMRT and VMAT are close to the same.....in fact, VMAT justa certain type of IMRT ....the shortest beam on type per my understanding.....Gooogle would clarify. SBRT can be done using VMAT I believe

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doc1947g in reply to maley2711

IMRT = 1.8 Ga /Tx, VMAT-RT = 3 Gy /Tx and SBRT = 8 to 10 Gy/Tx

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maley2711 in reply to doc1947g

Gy/Tx ???? Is that a rate of dose delivery? as I understand, that is peimarily what sets them apart, other than hopefully more precise delivery with higer dose rate tech???

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dockam in reply to maley2711

Have an RO appt after the Set up CT next Friday and we gonna Game Plane this

Mahalo

Randy

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maley2711 in reply to dockam

Also, kudos for all you bring to this forum ! Looking at your struggles, and your bio, did you have scans after your high risk high High PSA was found? I understand why it would be reasonable to conclude that you were already metastatic, but if you did have standard bone and CT scans done then , they did offer you surgery or ADT + RT, correct? Were your providers 50-50 on starting with chemo rather that ADT + RT.....I guess now it would be a triple combo option?

Fantastic pic...movie star????

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dockam in reply to maley2711

Mahalo nui loa. Scan showed Mets to L ureter lymph nodes, compressing the ureter with resultant L renal atrophy, but GFR and Creatinine levels are great. In 2015 MO said Dx was at perfect times as the CHAARTED trial data was dropping and showed 17 months longer OS with ADT and Chemo. I got that and more coming uop on 9 yrs in October 😁

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maley2711 in reply to dockam

so, this will be the 1st time to bombard the LNs with whole pelvic RT? Lots on your plate I know!!! If you happen to remeber, please let me/us know what you are offered re RT, and their logic for what is and isn't offered ? I'm not the only other Kaiser patient here now, or in the future....something like 10,000,000 members nationwide.

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Fash01

Aloha from beautiful downtown Lihue! Aloha Ka Ko! Congratulations!

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dockam in reply to Fash01

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah, my Dad was born on Kaua'iπŸ’™

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Fash01

Now, go kick that darn PSA back down with your pending RT. Sending you the best wishes!

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dockam in reply to Fash01

Mahalo and Imua Bruddah

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witantric

Congrats. Well deserved. Keep fighting and god bless

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dockam in reply to witantric

Mahal nui loa and youtu.be/ZEWkZb11pss

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Kaliber

no more deserving guy … and still in there trina help.

❀️❀️❀️

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Awww, Mahalo nui loa Bruddah Kal. Just Spreadin' Aloha πŸ’™ Love ya man

youtu.be/jNPb5G7fB6Y

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

love ya too buddy , you da best

❀️❀️❀️

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Bruddah Kal No ka Oi - you da best and I'm not going thru anything like you are, so mad props to you for your Verve/determination, lesser men woulda tapped out

youtu.be/otVH5cv9z1A

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Kaliber in reply to dockam

what you and I are going thru is a bit different but IMHO each just as messy in its own way. Both of us are careening down the same rough rocky road.

Like one brother kindly pointed out, these QOL posts are supposed to be positive and uplifting. …. Ima tryna to keep it that way, I haven’t tapped out …. but …I might suddenly be drumming my fingers right now, since yesterday evening yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

I hear you Bruddah Kal, we're riding bumpy roadsLife is a highwayπŸ˜ŠπŸ’™

Just rolled in from Hollywood. Was at the Golden State Film Festival, the lady formerly of ZERO cancer hubby had a film being shown

Golden State Film Festival
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Kaliber in reply to dockam

I’ll bet its great to have that break in the storms so you can get out of there too.

😁😁😁

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

LoL, it snowed on the way down, it turned to rain later. On my up CHP slowed us down on the fwy, maybe due to icy conditions

Snow in 14 fwy
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cam123

As one of the mostly silent majorities here, I just wanted to add my accolades for all that you contribute to this reluctant band of brothers. You are an inspiration to us all.

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dockam in reply to cam123

Awww, Mahalo for responding and coming out of the Dark😁

youtu.be/LyeYMQGCR_Y

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Scout4answers

Is this the first IMRT you have had?

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dockam in reply to Scout4answers

Yes, MO had me cons with an RO in 2016 and I declined thinking that IMRT was still a local therapy and wanted to have a whole body treatment with chemo/ADT.

LoL 39 sessions didn't kill off the PCa tho. PSMA showed an SUV Max of 87. 5 in L of prostate 😜

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Andy1569

Congrats Doc! Well deserved!! I believe the RA will get your no.'s back in line. My bet is on

" this scrawny *ss dog! 😊"

Fight On!

Andy

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dockam in reply to Andy1569

Mahalo Bruddah, I'm sure that the IMRT will at the very least buy me time πŸ’™

youtu.be/xo1VInw-SKc

Fight on. QoL on

Randy

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Andy1569 in reply to dockam

Hi my brother.

FYI I stole - Fight On! from you. πŸ˜‰

You deserve this and more for running for pc and advocating for us all by doing so . QOL post rock too! Mahalo! πŸ€™πŸ½

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Mahalo Bruddah, just tryna do what I can to spare other men what we are going thru and the QoL is too distract us from the drudgery

Had this license frame done in maybe 2016. Very easy PCa advocacy 😊
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KocoPr

Congratulations on well deserved recognition, and best of luck with your treatments.

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dockam in reply to KocoPr

Mahalo nui loa, ex wife told me that I was flying under the radar for whole life, and why put myself out there now. This was when the Orange County Register was doing a story about my doing the OC Marathon 3 days post chemo in 2015. I replied "I think that I could help"

ocregister.com/2015/04/30/c...

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KocoPr in reply to dockam

Your Dad is smiling froM above πŸ˜€

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dockam in reply to KocoPr

Awww, Mahalo nui loaπŸ’™ Wanna have him see how his Middle son of 3 boyz has adapted a Chardi Kala (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charh... attitude of eternal resilience and optimism.

My Dad was pretty chill and soft spoken, maybe I got his chill genes.

Me ke Aloha Pumehana - with Warm Love

Randy

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Yadifan

I love all your posts and look forward to them every day. Proud to know you sir.

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Awww, Mahalo nui loa for thatπŸ’™. Just lil old me tryna make Ripples and Spread Aloha

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Yadifan in reply to dockam

Wow Randy! What a great article! Your "ripples" have a profound impact on many.

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Awww, Mahalo that pic was taken in 2015 amidst chemos by an Orange County photographer, three days before the OC marathon. And the Blog was posted in 2017, now coming up on 6 years later, I'm still in the game :-)πŸ’™

FYI, in case I hadn't shared this one with you: tehachapinews.com/lifestyle...

My Best to you both on your PCa journey

Big Hug

Randy

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Yadifan in reply to dockam

Another wonderful article! Thank you for sharing. This one had me in tears.

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dockam in reply to Yadifan

Mahalo nui loa for that, Randy Ripples still upright and going strong :-)

Much Aloha

Randy

SLC talk for PCa victims and family
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Mikeski

πŸ™ peace brother, I enjoy your posts!

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dockam in reply to Mikeski

Mahalo nui loa and Peace be with you and Namaste

Me ke Aloha Pumehana - with warm Love

Randy

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Univs

Congrats!

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dockam in reply to Univs

Mahalo, I want us all to be proactive of sharing our PCa saga and prevent more men having to join the Forum

Fight on

Randy

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Univs in reply to dockam

Thank you

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carbide

Congratulations. Great to have people like yourself on this forum. Thank you.

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dockam in reply to carbide

Mahalo Brother, a lotta wonderful people on this Forum with knowledge, experiences and in my case Irreverence and a joie de vivre

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Carlosbach

Awesome honor Randy, and well deserved. We're all pulling for you.

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dockam in reply to Carlosbach

Muchas Gracias Senor and I know there's a ton of Positive Vibes/prayers coming outta this group. Love ya all and y'all can watch over me

youtu.be/1Lh9nxOwMMo

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timotur

Congrats on the award and well-done bringing PCa awareness!

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dockam in reply to timotur

Mahalo nui Loa, we can all do a lil something to spread PCa awareness. Not many know that Sept is PCa Awareness month,

Everyone knows about Susan G Komen and Breast ca advocacy

In 2019 I place Blue ribbons on signs on the Camino Frances in Northern Spain, I wanna get back and do the entire Camino - 480 miles

spanishforcamino.com/2019/0...

Save the Males :-)

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Bethpage

Amazing and so deserved. Many congratulations!

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Mahalo nui loa, Spreading Aloha, making Ripples

Me ke Aloha Pumehana with Warm Love youtu.be/SXJmEA0LEoE

Randy

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Bethpage in reply to dockam

Married under the banyan in Lahaina in 1993. That hibiscus takes me back. 🌺 Thank you!

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dockam in reply to Bethpage

Uh oh, you triggered a song Sista πŸ˜€"Take me back to da kine" youtu.be/qL58smK3FWE

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Bethpage in reply to dockam

L'dat!

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dockam in reply to Bethpage

πŸ€™Local or wut?😜youtu.be/6Bpt53CM_JY

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Bethpage in reply to dockam

Only in my heart. πŸ’—

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Close enough Sista πŸ’™πŸ€™

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Andy1569 in reply to dockam

What Beauty! ( SOUL/SOUND BEAUTY!)

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dockam in reply to Andy1569

Yes it sure isπŸ’™

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garyjp9

Congratulations on that wonderful award! The brothers (and their loved ones) all thank you.

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dockam in reply to garyjp9

Mahalo nui loa Brother, just got it in my head in 2015 that if I shared my saga via the bibs on my back at marathons, or on social media, or just doing what I call "The Big Reveal" to anyone eg clerks, wait staff

Fight On

QoL On

Randy

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garyjp9

So, I should say "mahalo nui loa" from all of us!

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dockam in reply to garyjp9

A'ole Pilkia - no problemo, actually My PleasureπŸ’™

Keep Men in the Game

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j-o-h-n

You rock, doc.................

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 02/26/2023 11:27 PM EST

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Mahalo Bruddah j-o-h-n youtu.be/XOpj3V18Ecg

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Greek/Hawaiian Megalo/Mahalo....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 02/27/2023 12:42 PM EST

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Greek/Hawaiian like a Spam Spanakopita

Opa/Auwe wehewehe.org/gsdl2.85/cgi-b...

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j-o-h-n

And souvlaki ala Paina ΞœΟ€ΟΞ¬Ξ²ΞΏ

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 02/27/2023 6:43 PM EST

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CAMPSOUPS

You're a celebrity in my book. I appreciate what you do.

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CAMPSOUPS in reply to CAMPSOUPS

By the same token I hope Tall Allen gets the recognition he greatly deserves.

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dockam in reply to CAMPSOUPS

Awww, Mahalo my Brother, just tryna be kind and help others here, or via Facebook.

During my marathoning days, I'd look around at the other runners to see if anyone was struggling at the later miles. Lindsay was one of themπŸ’™

Helped Lindsay finish NYC marathon
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CAMPSOUPS in reply to dockam

That's something else.

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dockam in reply to CAMPSOUPS

I found our race pic, so I went to the NYC race results page for 2019 and got her name, yea I stalked her πŸ˜‚. She used to be a FB friend

Lindsay and I about to finish NYC
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We did itπŸ’™

Proud Finishers
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Wow, Lindsay just accepted my Friend request and she's a Grief Counselor and has a website lifeafterloss.co/?fbclid=Iw...

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