I was diagnosed with ADHD about a year ago as an adult i always knew there was something wrong but never got checked as a kid. Well now that my marriage in falling apart my wife sent me to get tested and found out i have ADHD and dyslexia. At first i didn't want to admit to it or accept it and it really destroyed my marriage. Luckily my wife has stayed with me through it all. Now that i have accepted it i'm trying to make everything right with her, but we are on two separate side she doesn't see my side of things. How do you get your spouse to see your views on things and understand that you do care and love them.