My 16yo son has ADHD. Unmedicated for most of the past year, but managing around it. He's reached the point in his life where he has to start considering going to college and start looking for a summer job. He's shown little interest in either one, though he insists he wants to go to college (just hasn't shown the effort to write personal essays or build a resume) and insists he intends to get a job (he's applied to one job in the past month).
He's obsessed with talking to his friends on the phone and hanging out with them on the weekend. These are activities we're happy to let him have, but as his parents we're not giving him extra spending money. Once he gets his driver's license, we intend to limit his time with the car until his college work gets done (he also has to prep for the SAT).
I'm hoping to get some tips on how to encourage him to start working on his future, both short-term and long. Help us help him beat being lazy!